I'm sorry, this is just a weightloss journey vent of sorts, but I am really at my wits end!
I am glad that my own weightloss is spurring others to be interested in losing, but I'm really sick of the whole "how did you, what did you" questions and I when I begin to share what I'm doing, I get the brush off! And I am not offering this unless asked, btw. This has happened 6 times already! And there is always an excuse type comeback; when I give what I think is solid advice on how I overcame some of the same hurdles, yet another excuse.
How many of you are dealing/have dealt with this? How should I answer when people ask? I'm one of those people who just can't be mean but frankly, I am getting really tired of it. But then I think, what if this is the one person who really needs this and genuinely wants some help/encouragement? Are some people just fishing for a magic cure for fat? Because that is what it ends up feeling like, like they are not in reality and want me to say I stumbled across a miracle. When they hear lower calories, increase activity they retreat.