I don't have any work out buddies, though I do have people holding me accountable and reminding me to keep exercising - as I have my eating under control, it's the exercising I need to force myself to do. My boyfriend and his mum are both really encouraging at reinforcing the fact I need to exercise - just last night I was on the stationary bike and my boyfriend's mum said I should do 30 minutes and I said I only wanted to do 20 and she said I should do 30. Hah. I did 32 because I know I would have felt bad if I'd only done 20.
As for taking a break from friends, I have totally done this. I have a lot of friends that don't necessarily eat really unhealthily all the time, but when we hang out it's a lot of alcohol which often (for them) leads to things like meat pies, chips, etc etc etc, any snacks. I actually didn't see any of them for the first 10 or so weeks of starting to be healthier (aside from one of their birthdays and my birthday) and I'm only now starting to hang out with them again because I know that I can avoid temptation and control what I'm consuming now - before I was worried I wouldn't be able to.
I think it's ok to do this - and to be honest about it. I told them a couple of weeks ago that the reason I hadn't been hanging out with them as much was because I was making some healthy changes in my life and needed to learn how to deal with social situations differently - and they accepted that.
ETA: I'm now at the point where I can go out with them and control my alcohol and food intake and they know that I'm trying to be healthier so there is no pressure. It just took me a while to trust myself.
Last edited by rainbowstripe; 10-12-2010 at 03:07 AM.
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