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Originally Posted by mkendrick
I'm not going to lie. My ultimate motivation in dieting isn't to have a healthy body or to prove to myself that I can do it yadda yadda yadda. I want to be thinner because I do not like the way my body loooks. Why don't I like the way my body looks? Because since I was old enough to remember, I've been looking at images of women who were "perfect," and I'm very far from that standard. I've been conditioned to only think magazine women are beautiful. And men have been conditioned to only think magazine women are beautiful.
For once in my life, I want to feel sexy because of the way I look. I realize this is shallow and sad, but can you really blame me? Look at the society I've been brought up in. I know that I'm intelligent and interesting and fun, but I have never experienced the feeling of *looking* sexy.
I don't like the Photoshop stuff. I have always known about it, but it still bothers me. I no longer even bother reading magazines because they just depress me, lol.
No, I can't blame you for your motivation - mainly because the same issue is a significant part of my own motivation for losing weight too. Somewhere I think that this points to some issues I have other than simply being overweight, so I'm trying to deal with those (especially my self-image) at the same time as trying to shed the extra pounds.
I too found the video very interesting. Thank you, Windchime, for posting to it and sharing it with us. Did anyone else also watch parts 2 and 3? About the controversy, and peer pressure? I found those interesting too, especially some of those by the nutritionist (forgive me, I forget her name).
I'm one of those people who really had no idea about the prevalence of photoshopping photos like that. How much this was done when I was a teenager I don't know, but then I was buying magazines like that until well into my 20s (nowadays I might get Runner's World every now and then). If someone comes out with "But
everyone knows none of those photos are real!" then a piece of me cringes up and dies inside

It's really hard.
It would be nice if we could easily find the answers, but any "solution" is going to be deeper than some kind of ban or ciggy-pack-style warning. My personal opinion right now is that some folks, including myself, really need to learn to love themselves. Something needs to happen inside me, as much as (more than?) in the photo industry.