I agree with all of you.
Even if I've never been really fat, I don't like when people give me compliments or say something about my weight at the very first moment they meet me. I know that for them it's something about the *appearance* and that's the first thing that is clear, visible to them But look at my ticker, I didn't lose so MUCH weight. Just enough to look a little bit thinner and more comfortable with myself. I HATE when the only thing people can say about me, concerns my weight loss. And that I look nice and very pretty "but please don't lose more weight". It implies that I wasn't ok before. GRRRR
I decided to lose weight because I wasn't feeling comfortable and, for my frame, I FELT I could be thinner. And btw, it was binge-eating who lead me in the past to my highest weight. BUT, I don't think I was fat or REALLY needed to lose weight. Even NOW, I would SIGN WITH MY BLOOD to be more confident about myself, my body, my-everything
, even if the deal was to be heavier. I really envy people who are comfortable about themselves, whatever the weight or whatever everything else.
I know weight is not the issue (if not about health), it's just something that HELPS me in my lack of confidence.
And what I hate THE MOST, is when people act like hypocrites... they pretend that weight is not important to them that "you shouldn't lose (more) weight", but then the only think they can talk about concerns my body and how I look ecc... Why shoul I believe them when their only subject is my body?