I'm late to this thread, but I hosted a 4th of July BBQ at my house. So *I* controlled what was and was not offered.
So, I didn't eat any crap, other than the whipped heavy cream that I made to go along with the fruit salad and only a dollop. I didn't eat salsa & chips, either, which was one of the only two munchies food that I offered for before dinner (potato chips was the other - yuck!).
I did serve:
grilled chicken on the BBQ
Chili Lime chicken burgers
All beef hot dogs
Lean hamburgers
whole wheat buns
Garden Salad with blueberries & walnuts
Orzo salad with chick peas, red peppers, scallions, mint & feta
Couscous salad
Brown rice/lentils salad with peaches and nonfat yogurt
Brownies (I do not like!)
Cookies (I do not like!)
Fruit salad
Whipped cream
Ta-da! Healthy BBQ!