Thanks for all of your thoughtful answers. I guess I'm just frustrated becuase my once pear shape has turned into an apple shape for the time being, but I will keep going. And also, I have to be patient because I started this journey at 341 lbs, so it's logical to presume noticable results in my torso will come later. We're in this together.

I think this is interesting, that maybe a bigger mid section is due to being bloated from sodium. cut out the sodium, get a slimmer torso. But then I also question is this really a life style... give up processed foods for all eternal.... I hope there's a healthy compromise. Deal with the pooch, accept and eat processed foods, or restrict sodium all together.

I've never been a big soda drinker, so giving it up months ago was not a problem. I think also, I am undoing months and years of binge fast food eating. I've only been on this journey for about 6 months or so, so I'm staying patient in undoing the damaged I caused.

[QUOTE=Ailidh;2771863]Love your gym siggy!!!

:carrot: Thanks. I don't want to get bitten so I can't go to the gym today..lol

I'm a non-drinker. I've never drank and probably never will.

Sympathies - I know I'm not losing evenly. My stomach seems bigger than ever because everything else is getting smaller! But I have been keeping the tape measure handy. I have lost some there. Jeans are looser. So encouragement! We will get there. I sure don't want to cut out my coffee, my few glasses of wine or even sodium since I don't have high blood pressure (mine is low actually)...these are my luxuries! Not to excess but part of life is enjoying food (IMHO). And if this is going to be a lifestyle change, when I'm down to a healthy weight, if I feel like I'm fit from working out, I probably won't kill myself for six-pack abs ;-) Who knows, though what I might want to do when I get there? It's a journey isn't it?!

My problem is also mu tummy. I guess I have to really be devoted in making my tummy smaller. Whew..

I lost from my extremities inward - the tummy took a long time to show improvement.

Mid-way along my journey, I did start incorporating some of the Sonoma/Flat-belly diet concepts into my plan. I don't know if it was coincidental, but it did seem to help. I still incorporate MUFAs in my plan and I have finally regained my hourglass (instead of apple or log) shape (see goal pics linked below).

:)

Keep at it. It isn't fair - but eventually, you will get your original pear shape back!

Doesn't it always seems where we want it to go from the most it is the last to follow? For me my arms are still very large as well as my stomach.

Based on your stats, you still have a while to go before you reach your goal. Someone who only has 20 pounds to lose would likely notice more drastic changes all over the body (at least that's how it's been for me)... I have about 20 pounds to lose and I'm noticing the weight loss primarily in my stomach. Right now your body just hasn't been quite ready to let go of the belly weight... But it definitely will. Just give it time and keep working at it.

I am a true hourglass shape....butt/hips/thighs take the absolute longest for me...not losing much weight at this point but my body is reshaping itself...since my tummy is the first to lose, getting some compliments, but I want to see more weight gone....

I always joke that when I buy a new bra and the girls are where they should be, everyone thinks I have lost a lot of weight cause you can actually see I have a waist.....

WOW!! I looked at your links, what an inspiration you are....

Glitter- I too used to be a pear and have seemingly become an apple... something I NEVER thought would happen. Oh well... hopefully our tummies will both shrink very soon.

:o Thanks Jules!

I will be clicking on YOUR goal pics one of these days :D