I don't like to think of myself as a vengeful person but I did get some satisfaction recently. I ran into a "friend" that completely and utterly dumped me four years ago. We were best friends for 20+ years and we have not spoken for the last 4 years. I have had a couple of sightings of her over that period of time but she avoids me. We came face to face this past Sunday in a store. She was talking on her cell and happened upon me. I could tell by the look on her face that she was shocked to see me. I said Hi and she said Hello, turned around and walked away. She continued to shop, as my DD and I did as well, but talked on her phone the entire time. I was pretty shook up by the chance meeting. But here's the kicker. She looked like she had just rolled out of bed (it was 6pm) and she looked at least 20+ lbs heavier than when I had last seen her. She had poured herself into a pair of skinny jeans with pumps and her hair was looking crazy. She was not at her best...

ROFL. SssssssssssssssWWwwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeettt !

I am sorry about you losing your friend. I hope it has made room in your life for something/someone very special to come in!

Thighs, the main reason that she dumped was because I had met a bunch of new girlfriends and she was very jealous about it. The new friends are so much more supportive of me that while I was very hurt by her actions I realize now that it was definitely for the best. I'm in a much better place in my life now. I almost think that it was an abusive/toxic relationship. I had pretty much disengaged myself emotionally before our "break-up" but it still hurt deeply.

And yeah--it was sweet revenge!

revenge is such a great motivator. its wanting to prove everyone wrong . you know you can do it you just have to shut them up. i want this , because it was mine. until i started dating the hellish ex i was athletic , fun , pretty. then after three years of his insanely jealous *** / and poor. we were eating fast cheap food all the time, i wasnt allowed to go out with friends, or go to the gym, i gained 70 pounds. i already lost 200 by dumping him and finding 155 pound man of awesome. its just time for me to get rid of the evidence of what he did to me. my revenge will be him seeing me as fine as i was before him walking down the street with a man thats finest he cant reach. and BAM!!!!!!!!! sweet revenge muhahahahahaha muhahahahahaha