Ah, its been a long time since I posted. Hello everyone!!
Okay so my rooomate after months of hibernation and a WOW gaming obsession she has now turned her sites onto what my interests and focus are: losing weight. I run, do boxing and do some rollerblading and generally try to stay active (but I'm still about 20 pounds overweight) and I try to eat well but have my normal slip ups. She on the other hand has developed this routine that I just can't tolerate anymore.
She will come home and give me play by play details of her boxing class; she will show me a stretch they did in Yoga; she will ask me what I'm eating, or what I ate, and carefully looks at the food in the fridge to see what I have been eating. And then she will brag about how she ate a 'great salad' and that she went running and THEN went to boxing. This goes on and on each day.
She is a good roommate but other things are starting to slack. She had a few people over on Friday night. No biggie, but the mess was still there on Monday morning. She chose to go to the gym and then to the beach, to leave me with this mess in the house.
I am working out and trying to eat healthy but I feel like I'm under a microscope with her! I don't think she's intentionally competing with me, but its forcing me to constantly think about what I'm doing and what she's doing and it's turning ME into an obsessive behaviour and it doesn't work for me because I self-sabatoge as soon as I start thinking anything negative.
Beyond just ignoring her tales of amazing workouts, and not listening to her tell me exactly what she put in the salad she made, what can I do to feel happy and comfortable again with myself? How can I stop this rediculous competition that I've started in my head?