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butterflykiss 07-27-2007 09:16 PM

Well, lets see I was born premature and very tiny for awhile until my grandparents started feeding me table food very early to "put meat on my bones" because the doctors was concern because I was very underweight. So since I'm a country gal, they fed me mashed potatoes in my bottle, homemade buttermilk biscuits, "sugar water", and etc. So I continued on that path of eating, with my humongous sweet tooth and a thing for breads until I decided that I needed to do something before it gets out hand.

staciec878 07-27-2007 09:19 PM

Growing up Itailian, Dr. Pepper's and drug addiction got me fat.

milleradah 07-27-2007 09:41 PM

:)well until the age of 20 i was at 120 and very active and so needless to say i ate everything i wanted. well got married and 9 months to the day had a baby had her at 203(c section) i did lose all but 10 pounds there but 2 years later another girl this time i had her at 210 well i left the hospital only to find out that my 17 year old brother had killed himself was very hard time in my life and food seemed like a good answer at the time i did get down to 175 . 3 years later another girl had her at 212(c-section) and well got down to 189 after her and then the eating has just stayed the same. i have never had anyone tell me how to eat right mom and dad think fries and steak are the way of life. but i might have spent my 20's fat i am going to be skinny in my 30's:carrot:

adah

starzzy 07-27-2007 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by bargoo (Post 1792482)
I went to the grocery store and somehow cookies, pies , cakes, ice cream, candy bars and donuts happened to fall off the shelves into my grocery cart,not noticing they were in my cart when I went to the checkout stand I accidently paid for them and accidently took them home.Of course when I got home I didn't want to be wasteful so I had to eat this stuff. This happened many times. I was never able to understand how this happened.

As with "Lovestorun"...this is what happened to me as well! Well, my cart was filled mainly with pizza...A LOT of pizza.

In high school I played varsity sports. I exercised in college as well, so I did not gain much during this time. But, I have always been chubby..but in shape! I gained most of my weight after entering the work world and not exercising...most of my weight came on in less than two years.

I ate poorly during my first semester of graduate school, and was told by a doctor that if I kept putting on weight at the rate that I was, I could die young. I realized that taking care of my body is just as important as anything else, so slowly but surely...I am trying to reverse the damage that I did in a two year period of time.

doIlookfat? 07-27-2007 10:07 PM

In high school and college I was in the marching band and was very active. I could eat anything and not gain weight. Got married, put on a few. Got prego, put on a few more because I had huuuuuge cravings. Another pregnancy,...you see the pattern? Yep, ballooned! I was so clueless over the years. If I had known then what I know now.........

Heidi

metalgoddess 07-27-2007 10:11 PM

Fat from the start
 
I was doomed from the beginning... I was a 10 lb baby. Then I had a mother who loved to cook and bake. By the time I was an adult and could make my own food choices I was so confused on what was good and what wasn't. Now that I have the trusty internet I'm doing alot better.

wisher 07-27-2007 10:22 PM

My story is very simple. I ate a very high fat high calorie diet (yes, thousands of calories a day) and never, ever worked out and I got fat, gee whiz!! lol

EZMONEY 07-27-2007 11:27 PM

BEER

ThinGirl in FatBody 07-27-2007 11:43 PM

I don't remember when I first became fat, it seems I was always that way as a child too. None of my sisters were, I was the only one - my Mother is 90 pounds soaking wet - so I was really alone in my fatness.

I think it was because I was greedy, I wanted the biggest portion with the most butter or whatever. I remember sneaking into the kitchen for chips, or making huge sandwiches in the evening when everyone else was in bed, sneaking candy & chocolate and having way more food then I should.

In my adulthood I got slim for a while - size 6 for a few years, long enough to get a boyfriend, get engaged and married, and then it all came back again. What a shock to hubby who had no idea I was fat up until a few months before I met him.

We were at my sister's once and she started bringing out home movies and pics of us when we were kids - I made an excuse that I had a huge headache and we had to leave - really I didn't want my husband to see my childhood pics and discover the truth.

I really don't know what triggered my weight gain as a young child, but I was definately already fat by 4 years old.

OH2007 07-28-2007 02:00 AM

Chalk 15 pounds up to a few pregnancies.

Chalk another 15 pounds up to learning to eat horribly from hubby after marrying. (Really, I was a pretty darned good eater before he came along and introduced me to all of the evil things in life. LOL)

Then I quit smoking a year ago. BLAMMO! 60 more pounds without even knowing what hit me. Dang.

I figure 15 of the above can stay on if my body insists, since I'm older now and not going 24/7 like I was in my 20s. The rest of it is getting the boot, though!

Altari 07-28-2007 03:37 AM

Note : I got fat, because I didn't pay attention. These are just the things that actually caused the weight gain...in the end, it's still my fault.

* Anorexic through high school. Stopped it when I got preggers @ 16, but my metabolism was shot.
* Preeclampsia caused about 60 of the 100 pounds I gained while I was pregnant.
* Severe depression accounted for the other 40.
* Lost 40 between pregnancy 1 and pregnancy 2.
* Gained 25 back after pregnancy 2 due to liver failure.
* Lost 20 with pregnancy 3.
* Gained it all back due to another bought of severe depression and anemia.

I guess those things, at the time, made me think I should just eat whatever made me feel better. With the liver failure, that was kind of a given, though, with 'feeling better' being a lack of severe pain in my abdomen...That's the only one I give myself a real pass on.

The rest, I just didn't pay attention to what was going on and kept telling myself 'once this is over, I'll fix it' Well...here I am, 5 years later, down a whopping 20 pounds from what I was when I finished my first pregnancy. 4 pounds a year...go me...

ih8diets 07-28-2007 07:28 AM

Ive been fat all my life, ever since i can remember! Only in the Summer of last year did i finally say to myself: "I really have to get this off now and waste no more of my life". Ever since that point i have been on-off dieting. 2st lighter now and i never realised how overweight i was in the first place...

purpleorc 07-28-2007 09:27 AM

My story so far regarding my weight gain. I was a normal weight child up until I hit my puberty from then on my weight gained. I was always hungry instead of going for healthy choices there were always healthy choices in the home but I always went for the unhealthy sugar laden. (these were for my sister who was sick and was very underweight for her height)

When I became a student nurse money was tight so I went for the cheap fat ladened foods. My weight continued to go up. By the time I had a decent wage my food choices did not improve. I was eating way more calories than I should. Fortunately my job as a nurse was active so that curbed some of my weight gain.

Then in my late 20's I felt increasingly tired and instead of cooking there were more take outs. Then at the age of 35 I was diagnosed with MS and I spiralled into depression ate more and ate more and more sugar ladened foods.

Then one day I thought enough is enough. No one else made me fat I did this to me, I am the one to blame. So I took the bull by the horns and made myself accountable for everything that goes in my mouth. Now I am nearly 4 stone lighter (56 lbs)

veggielover 07-28-2007 10:07 AM

a lack of self control + vending machines everywhere= wreaking havoc

FrouFrou 07-28-2007 10:39 AM

I don't like to blame it on anything or anyone other than myself but rather things contributed to it...guess it's not the same.

* 1st DH was always trying to feed me, lol. We would make runs to Jack in the Box at 3 am. Of course I wasn't hungry but he would get mad if I didn't eat so to please him I ate. Glad that didn't last long, lol.

*After each pregnancy (3) I lost all the weight gained but it was like my body was comfortable at the pregnancy weght and it came back on real quick...wasn't eating any different.

I stayed that weight for years but then we ate out A LOT so I slowly gained some. I reached a certain weight and stayed there for years. Then he was killed and I lost almost 40 pounds fast, not intentional.

Fast forward 8 years and I met DH#2 to be. Just got comfortable and started eating out again and gained a little of the 40 pounds back. Then got pregnant with #4 and lost the baby and it went downhill from there. Turned to food and gained about 20 pounds and I have been struggling since to get it off. So while there were struggles along the way I don't really blame anyone or anything other than myself.


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