Zomg I love asparagus. And it'll be coming up in 2 months! Maybe less!
Every spring, AFTER gorging on it 2 meals a day for 2 weeks, I vow to find recipes for it. And every time I do try a very-special-asparagus-recipe, I'm reminded that the best way to have it is steamed, then a little bit of salt added, and a bit of butter if you like. Yes, 2-3 minutes TOPS for cooking asparagus. I like my vegs on the crisp side.
I think thicker-stalked asparagus is more interesting than thin stalks. IIRC, stalks are thick early in the season, and get thinner as you pick it. Also don't do the "snap" method to trim the ends. You lose a LOT of really good stem that way. Just trim off an inch or two from the bottom, maybe three if it looks really woody.
By the way, it's really easy to grow and you don't need much room depending on the size patch you want. I think my patch is about 2 feet by 6 feet and that's enough asparagus to feed 3 families. So even if you have a 2x2 patch you could grow it. You just need a well-drained (or slightly sandy) soil, and it doesn't require a lot of care or fertilizing. Comes up in the spring, harvest it until you are sick of it, which is for about 2-3 weeks. Trust me
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