Alcohol?
 

Hi again folks

Now that I have introduced myself, out come the skeletons!

I can't control my drinking very well. I am off to a wedding tomorrow and I don't want a repeat of the wedding I went to a fortnight ago, where I passed out and my Boyf had to put me in my room.

Drink is without doubt the single reason why I am not at target, and probably the reason why I piled on the lbs recently. I have gone without drink loads of times as I usually do it in January and once again for Lent. I always feel great, rise earlier, get more done and lose weight effortlessly. Then I start drinking again.

Recently, after joining WW I decided to go for moderation. I bought a bottle and it lasted 4 days...all accounted for in my daily allowance. This is a breakthrough for me.

Now I am really worried about this wedding tomorrow. I have decided to only drink Champagne to toast and a couple of Pimms.

I'd really like to hear success stories from people who have either stopped drinking completely or only have a few on special occasions.

If I could nail this then I'd be at target, I'd eat less rubbish when drunk and be happier for sure.

Your comments & thoughts appreciated

Lou

Thanks for sharing your experience. It has really made me think how my behavior may be perceived. I am nowhere near as rude or as obnoxious as your SIL but I must have been loud.

The Bride and Groom were absolutely fine the next day and we all had a wonderful Breakfast together, looking at photos and telling tales of the night before, so I didn't offend anyone. I just hate it that I can't control my drink after few.

You were very generous in allowing your SIL and the uninvited guests to stay to your lovely sounding reception. I think I would have sent them back to the pub, as you obviously had your reasons for wanting the affair to be civilised.

One other thing you have said which has given me clarity, is the comment about the Hen Night.

I was perfectly sober on the Hen Night as I had lots of studying to do that weekend and I had an absolutely fantastic time. I even danced! So thankyou for reminding me it can be done and it can be fun.

I have decided, from reading your reply, that I am going to stick to my plan of champagne to toast and one drink with the meal. You have given me a lot to think about in terms of my selfish behavior and I WILL report back here on Sunday that I DID IT!

I wish our culture was a little more civilised (Don't get me wrong I'm not one of those you see on 'Booze Britain' TV progs!) But I suppose I don't have to drink just because everyone else is.

Plus! I'm meant to be losing weight! and the Alcohol does not help.
Lou

I don't drink all the time but for the last six months or so I have enjoying going out on the weekend and doing, what I guess you'd call, binge drinking. Just once a week but enough alcohol to sink the titanic, lol. However. two weeks ago I decided to have a month off from drinking all together and I am heading for my third weekend this weekend and I feel soooooooo much better for not drinking. I can't see me not drinking ever again but feeling better is showing me that getting drunk is just not worth it. Once in a while yes, but not regularly.

Not much help to you in your situation, though. Good luck x

Thanks for your input

I do that as well.....drink only on one night of the week as I can't afford the time off studies!

It's nice to know you are on your 3rd weekend booze-free. I'm going to change my ways as it's not good for my health, weightloss efforts or self-esteem.

Good luck on your month off.....I did read somewhere that it takes 3 weeks to get out of your system and after this you start to feel wonderful.. I know I do when I have given up in the past.

Lou

Tell me about it! I have just got back from Sainsbury's with a lot of Diet tonic and sugar free cordials, diet jamaican beer and other alcohol-free goodies for the picnic I'm attending on Sunday (another planned sober day;)). The wine was on offer and so was the gin.

It is cheap here.

I think I am weird as I didn't drink underage and didn't really drink much at College. Now I'm working full time and studying full time, I seem to be worse than the teenagers;)

Lou

Yay! I did it. Just a few drinks to toast. HAd an amazing day and hope my efforts are rewarded on the scales as well.

Lou:carrot:

thats great louise, well done you!!

its interesting that it takes 3 weeks to leave the system because last night i was really wanting a drink!!! it had not bothered me before but for some reason last night it did. I didnt have one though and today spent all day in the pub with friends and drank only water and diet coke!

A few years ago I was on the verge of having a drinking problem.

I would drink alone every night - having about half a bottle of Amaretto every night. It was starting to worry me and also didn't help with my weight problem.

So when I started my diet one of things I put on the nono list was alcohol - rather than telling myself I was 'stopping drinking', it was just one more thing I couldn't have because I was dieting. It seemed to help.

I haven't given up drinking altogether but I limit myself and try to have a glass of water or a soft drink between every alcoholic drink.

A couple of months ago I went out with a friend and we drank more or less the same amount but I was absolutely paralytic and I was VERY ill the next day, so ill I couldn't take care of my children and my friend, who had stayed overnight as I was so ill, had to stay for the next day too and look after me and my children. I'm actually worried that in the past I have done some damage to my liver and this is why I can't take my drink any more.

I have never mentioned this to anyone ever - this is the first time I have written it out.

So cut down, before you kill yourself.

I have to say I respectfully disagree with some of what chick said.

alcohol and dieting do not mix - that is simply not true. I managed to lose 5 stone while still drinking on the weekend.

you dont need alcohol to have a good time - true but but it does help! I have been out a few times without drinking and had the most horrific time ever and ended up coming home because it was so unenjoyable! Not because I was missing the alcohol but because have you ever tried being around everyone as the only sober person?! Also when I have had a drink I lose my inhibitions and will get up and dance without worrying what I look like, and talk to new people without feeling inferior. These are things I realise that need to be addressed without alcohol but we dont live in a perfect world and these are issues of mine.

I am not saying you need to drink to the point of unconsciousness every weekend, but a few drink wont hurt (and a certain small amount of alcohol actually improves circulation and the heart, according to the netdoctor.co.uk)

i think the key, like anything when dieting is moderation. the minute you start obliterating things from your life completely is when trouble starts. (unless of course alcohol is a real problem in which case it could be beneficial to go without, but seek advice from your gp.)

I think it's simple. I dont want to sound harsh or offend but if you want to lose this weight enough, you'll control the drinking. Theres no magic key, its like all of those women who are obsessed with fatty take out foods... it takes determination and will power. You can do it, but only if you want it enough. Good luck :)