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corningkat 01-12-2005 11:56 PM

hi
 
hi singles! the urban rebounder is a mini trampoline and there are videos you can bounce away too. it looks like fun. i started that ddr(dance revolution) thread. i am definitely getting that. i have been trying to get it since mid-december but the playstation 2 became a hot item this xmas and there are none to be found till february when sony will be caught up on backlog. that was suppose to be my xmas present to myself. :lol: i guess maybe it will be a valentines gift.

hopefully, i will make it to rejoin the ww meeting tomorrow if nothing stops me this week. wish me luck!

have a good thursday!
kathy

corningkat 01-14-2005 12:48 AM

bas luck
 
hi singles! my motto is if it weren't for bad luck i wouldn't have any luck at all. :lol: i guess rejoining ww is out of the question. i went to the meeting and they informed me it was the last one at that location. the leader found a new job and they couldn't find a replacement. now there is no day meetings anywhere in my area. (i work 2nd shift) i then called headquarters in syracuse because i had bought the 10 week package to save a few $$$. i had only attended 2 meetings. they said they would reimburse me for my 9 tickets i had left but won't reimburse me for the joining fee and first week. that of course made me mad. it's not my fault they can't supply the service i already paid for. what a day!!!!

i guess i am on my own again. i am just going to follow it at home as i already have the materials my mom had gotten me. i did good today and tomorrow is another day. i will take it day by day.:halffull:

have a good friday!
kathy

SheriaVa 01-14-2005 10:23 AM

Originally Posted by corningkat:
they said they would reimburse me for my 9 tickets i had left but won't reimburse me for the joining fee and first week. that of course made me mad. it's not my fault they can't supply the service i already paid for.

WOW...that SUCKS! How unfair. You have to wonder if your local WW took your money knowing that the leader was going to be leaving soon. Hmm. You could always report them to the Better Business Bureau, but then I guess if the local WW is closing, it wouldn't hurt them much.

Well hang in there...it IS possible to go it on your own. I've been on my own for all but 3 months of the 1 1/2 years of my journey (for those 3 months, I attended a Weight Watchers @ Work program which was actually less successful for me than going on my own...but each person is different in terms of what they want/need in terms of structure, accountability, etc.

chica8 01-14-2005 08:57 PM

Hi All,
Kat I love your motto, it could also be my motto was well!! But I hope that this doesn't become a set back (which it seems like its not going to be),I agree that WW should has refunded your fees.

I have justed started WW and its going ok, this was not the best week for me to start the program but I am glad I did. My downfall is exercising! I have not really worked out this week but I have made myself walk alot more than normal, I guess I'll start with baby steps!

Have a great weekend singles!

corningkat 01-15-2005 12:18 AM

hi
 
hi singles! well, today didn't go so bad in the dietary dept. i guess i will just do my best on my own. i ordered that trampoline that you see on tv. it looks like fun. i really need help in the exercise dept..

chica - i love to walk but i just can't do it in the cold. hopefully that
trampoline will come soon.

does anyone read prevention magazine?? it is one of my favorites and very up to date. anyways, the results of a new in-depth study are in about trans fats and high fructose corn syrup. boy was that an real eye opener. it's just too coincidental that the obesity and diabetic rates soared when food makers started putting so much of that stuff in their foods during the 1960's. i'm definitely going to be more careful about label reading.

well, i just got out of work and have to be back at 7am so i have to hit the hay! have a good weekend!
kathy

SheriaVa 01-16-2005 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by corningkat:
does anyone read prevention magazine?? it is one of my favorites and very up to date. anyways, the results of a new in-depth study are in about trans fats and high fructose corn syrup. boy was that an real eye opener. it's just too coincidental that the obesity and diabetic rates soared when food makers started putting so much of that stuff in their foods during the 1960's. i'm definitely going to be more careful about label reading.

I don't read Prevention but that article certainly sounds worth the read--is it in the latest issue on newstands now? I too have heard horrible things about high fructose corn syrup and its ties with America's obesity epidemic. I try to be very careful about label reading, but the truth is there is just too much that manufacturers aren't required to tell us right now. Hopefully, in the next few years, the laws will change on that and we'll be able to get more honest and open information on the labels. I'm not sure if the law ever went through, but I heard there was a law that would require ALL restaurants to put nutrition information on their menus starting in 2006. I hope that it passed because that would be SO WONDERFUL!!! I know when I found Dotti's Weight Loss Zone restaurant list and started looking up some of my favorite dishes, I was HORRIFIED to learn how high in fat they were.

I have been sick the past 2 days so I am not eating much but I am very happy that I have stayed on plan with what I HAVE eaten. I have not exercised in two days but hope to be feeling up to at least an abs workout tomorrow or something else that doesn't require jumping about and getting too overworked and sweaty.

corningkat 01-16-2005 10:23 PM

hi
 
hi sheriva - i hope you get to feeling better soon. there is so much going around. don't workout if your not up to it. you will overstress your body and make yourself sicker. that would be a good law if it passes. that article was in the latest prevention. you might be able to find it on prevention.com also.

well, i hope we all have a good week!
kathy

corningkat 01-18-2005 02:12 PM

hi
 
hi singles!!! thought i'd give us a quick bump up. where is everyone??
kathy

SheriaVa 01-19-2005 07:57 PM

Thanks for the bump, Kathy. Even though I was home a lot over the long weekend, I was sick for a good bit of it and wasn't spending much time online so I'm behind everywhere! I am a little concerned that the folks who were regulars here before the holidays still haven't made an appearance. :(

corningkat 01-21-2005 12:19 AM

hi
 
well, sheriva, i guess it is up to us to keep it going till they rejoin us. i hope you are feeling better. i stayed home from work tonite myself. i went to the dr's on tuesday and my blood pressure was thru the roof. she believes it is from that artharitis medicine so i had to quit taking it. now i've run out of choices. anyway, the pressure was down a bit today but i was having dizzy spells so i decided to stay home and rest. i have to monitor it till monday and call the dr. back. i've never had so many medical problems before. it must be my turn i guess.

i'm going back to florida in feb. for services for my dad and spend time with my mom. i'm looking forward to the warmth. she says it's not too warm there only 60-65 during the day. boo hoo! i say, she should try 0 degrees. :lol:

have a good friday!
kathy

SheriaVa 01-21-2005 07:59 AM

I have hypertension too, kathy, so I know what that feels like with the dizzy spells and such...not pleasant! Hope everything gets figured out with your meds and you are feeling better real soon.

How wonderful you get to escape to Florida in February! WOOHOO! Like you said, even 60 degrees would be balmy compared to where we are! :) DC is usually relatively mild in the winter (compared to where I grew up in Ohio), but we have had some real cold snaps here and I have lived here so long now that I am a total wuss when it comes to cold and snow/ice!

corningkat 01-22-2005 10:17 PM

hellooo!!!
 
hi sheriva! did you get to see the big president's parade? i watched some on tv, but not much, too boring. we are having a snow storm today. so i am cooped up. tomorrow is suppose to be pretty much the same. time to catch up on some sleep.

have a good sunday!
kathy

SheriaVa 01-23-2005 06:27 PM

No, I didn't go see the Inaugural parade. First, because I am no fan of Mr. Bush and, second, because it was SO horribly cold that day (still is). I didn't even watch it on TV.

corningkat 01-23-2005 08:44 PM

hi
 
hello! i am no fan either, but i didn't want to say anything sarcastic because i didn't want to hurt feelings if you were. :lol: he didn't get my vote either. that was the day i stayed home from work and i didn't watch it either. this weather stinks. i can't wait till spring has sprung. i feel cooped up. i had today off because i told my pt job i would only work as a fill-in. i can't handle the 2 jobs right now. all i did was sleep most of the day though. i think it's cuz i'm not feeling up to par. this weather makes it hard for exercise. i can't wait till my trampoline and videos get here. i don't have to worry much about the eating end because i really haven't had much of an appetite lately either.

hey singles!! where did everyone else go?????? yooohooooo!!!!! come out, come out from where ever you are!! :)

have a good week!
kathy

corningkat 01-25-2005 11:56 AM

hi
 
hey singles! bumping us back up. trying to hold on to our thread. where is everyone???

have a good day!
kathy

p7eggyc 01-25-2005 12:13 PM

Hi Kathy and Sheri,
I'm lurking around here. Not spending as much time online as I was before the first of the year. Kathy, I hope you start to feel so much better soon! I'm sure it's hard with the grief and not feeling great physically. I can't wait to hear more about your trampoline.

Things are going fine here. I'm hanging on to the exercise/eating healthy thing by my fingernails but that seems to be enough right now. Met someone new and it is taking a lot of my time, energy and focus but what a wonderful distraction. Fortunately, he is very health minded too and quite supportive of whatever I think I need to do to take care of myself so that is a wonderful thing. I hear from a lot of people about how their SO interferes with their success so I was quite happy to find him so aware on the subject. He runs marathons...yikes! :)

What else...hmmm...going snowshoeing for the first time this year on Sunday. Looking forward to that. Haven't been out in nature much lately and I need the sunshine and R&R.

That's all for now I guess!

Peg

SheriaVa 01-25-2005 06:08 PM

Originally Posted by p7eggyc:
Hi Kathy and Sheri,
Fortunately, he is very health minded too and quite supportive of whatever I think I need to do to take care of myself so that is a wonderful thing.

I knew about your new guy but didn't know he was also into the healthy lifestyle...how WONDERFUL! I would love to meet someone like that (as long as he wasn't TOO far in that direction--i.e., a fanatic about it).

You have met at least two great guys just in the short time I've known you. I clearly need to come hang out with you cuz I ain't meeting ANY! ;) Of course, a lot of that is because of ME! I am not the most open person to approach--in fact, I'm told I am intimidating and unapproachable. LOL

You know what? I think that a lot of that is from being heavy for so many years and having guys look THROUGH/PAST me as if I didn't exist and figuring that two can play at THAT game...but now I've gotten too good at looking like I don't give a S**T! ;)

corningkat 01-26-2005 12:02 AM

hi
 
hi singles! glad to hear some conversing going on. :D

peg- wonderful for you. having someone supportive is half the battle in my book. and like sheriava said maybe i should hang out with you too.

sheriava - i am just the opposite. i am too quiet and unapproachable i guess.

i have been talking to someone but i don't know if it will go anywhere. he is shyer than i am. well, i'm in no hurry anyways. i'd rather be friends first than jumping in with both feet again. i've learned that lesson too many times. :dizzy:

have a great wednesday!
kathy

p7eggyc 01-26-2005 10:44 AM

I have to admit to this all being new to me too. Jack did tell me that he was sure a lot of men found me intimidating which I think is probably true. It was nice to hear that he wasn't though. :) I keep telling myself to stop thinking this but I'm pretty sure he wouldn't have taken a second look 30 lbs ago but that probably isn't fair to him (or me for that matter). We met in the airport so that was just the beginning of what has been a totally out of the ordinary experience! It's pretty darn exciting to say the least. Needless to say I'm going to be eating some crow with some of my friends that kept telling me that it would happen when I least expected it and I kept rolling my eyes at them. hehe I definitely wasn't expecting a flight delay to turn out to be such an awesome beginning.

He found the Passing for Thin book I was reading this weekend. I think he's trying to understand where I'm coming from on all of this weight/healthy eating stuff (join the club! lol).

Peg

corningkat 01-28-2005 12:30 AM

hi
 
hey singles! it is late nite (my usual time) and i'm wide awake as usual. not much going here. been doing really good this week with my eating. i have not been following any diet in particular, just eating salad ( not a big fan) and lots of fruit instead of junk. so far the scale is showing 3lbs. i am happy with that because that scale has done nothing but go up for a while.

peg - sometimes something totally out of the ordinary is good to shake life up a little. i'm glad you are happy. how is that passing for thin book?? i've been thinking of getting it with a gift card i have, i just haven't gotten to the store yet.

sheiva - how is your week going???

have a great friday!
kathy :)

SheriaVa 01-28-2005 08:19 AM

Kathy, I read Passing for Thin just before Peg did and I think it would be very helpful to most folks who have weight to lose, are in the process of losing or have already lost. There are things I don't respect about how Frances lost her weight, or about Frances as a person, and there were even aspects of the writing that I didn't like, but I felt that the content of her book was well worth the read...especially as it relates to the psychology of being heavy and how we are treated by society and how all our problems are definitely NOT solved just by becoming thin (she found that she just had a whole new set of problems when she got thin).

Aside from that, my week is going okay. Work-wise, I have been having a harried, busy time and kind of an attitude problem. But I had a good day yesterday in that I got two compliments at work (about my weight loss) from a coworker who has never mentioned it before and also got compliments at dinner last night with some old friends I hadn't seen in a long while. Though I haven't been losing lately (and have been really bummed about it), they all remarked on how great I looked, so it lifted my spirits a lot.

Peg, I've been told (back when I was still actively "looking" for a man) that it wouldn't happen while I was looking but only when I least expected it. Well, I stopped looking YEARS ago and it still hasn't happened! Granted, I live a pretty solitary life and I don't go out to bars or clubs anymore (plus my workplace is predominantly female) so there really aren't many opportunities for me to meet the kind of men that I'm interested in. But I figure if it is meant to be, it will happen. In the meantime, life goes on! I really question whether, at my age and all these years alone, I really could sustain a long-term relationship and especially a live-in one.

chica8 01-29-2005 08:23 PM

Hi All,
Well it has been a pretty hectic couple of weeks since I last posted. Since my last posting I have lost weight but my adherence to my "diet" has lessened, I am not as bad as before but I am not doing as well as I could.
I laughed when I read the postings by SheriaVa and corningkat regarding seeming intimidating. I am a combination of both I come off as unapproachable because I am quiet! In my case I think I became unapproachable as a self-protective mechanism. I am trying to change this but it is a pretty hard habit to unlearn!

corningkat 01-31-2005 12:39 AM

hi
 
hi singles! the weekend is over already. can't believe it. it goes by sooo fast.
i got my new toy tonite finally. a playstation 2. i've been waiting for them to get some in at wally world. now i have to go to another walmart to get the dancing game i want. i got a few games with it tonite. it's funny how gaming technology has changed so much since we were kids. i am quite rusty, but i'll get the hang of it with practice.

sheriva - when i get some time to the book store, i'll check that book out. i already have a stack of books i haven't read yet. i keep buying them and don't find time to sit and read them.

chica - welcome back! it's been pretty quiet around here. i totally understand your defense mechanism theory. been hurt too many times. i spent some time this weekend with that guy i was refering to in an earlier post. i guess he likes me but it's hard to get him to talk. i guess he gets so nervous he clams up. i'll have to work on making him feel more comfortable around me. i'm in no hurry anyway.

have a good week singles!
kathy

corningkat 02-01-2005 11:48 AM

hi
 
hi singles! giving us a bump up again. i am killing some time so i thought i'd check in.

sheriva - do you think we should start a new thread? this is getting very long again. maybe a new thread would bring some newbies in also.

have a good tuesday! :)
kathy

slimmingsi 02-02-2005 07:38 AM

wednesday calling morning all i'm bored lonely and depressed

SheriaVa 02-02-2005 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by slimmingsi:
wednesday calling morning all i'm bored lonely and depressed

Si! Good to see you! Sorry to hear you are feeling down, though.


Kathy...sure thing...I'll set us up a new thread and see if I can remember how to link it back to this one.

SheriaVa 02-02-2005 11:07 AM

Okay, we've got a new singles thread (#3) started. It links back to this one and now you can link forward from this one to THAT one.


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