Hi everyone -
I'm going to try and play catch up here. After the consult with the lung surgeon on Friday, I had to work (thankfully from home) that evening. I didn't fall asleep until after 11 (which is quite late for me). Right around 10:30, our doggies started going crazy and wanted to go outside. My wonderful neighbor from across the street was using his ATV with plow attachment to plow our driveway. He asked how DH was doing, and I told him not well, and it's pretty much going to stay status quo until after the biopsy. Yesterday, I delivered him a 12-pack of really good beer (the Wisconsin bartering system) and a gift card to Pizza Hut for him and his family to enjoy. He didn't want to take either, and he said that if I need anything else (snow removal or anything) until DH is doing better...don't hesitate to ask. What an awesome guy! I told him that if he ever needed computer repair or car repair...we can help him out in those areas.
On Saturday, I ran a couple of errands and went to hear readings from a local writer's group that holds readings roughly twice per year. Members in the group are working on novels, short stories, and poems and span many genres. The group meets once per month at which time every member delivers 12-15 pages of their writing to each of the other members...then the following month, they meet to discuss what was turned in the previous month. I'm thinking it might be the impetus to get me to write - I'd have to write a dozen or so pages every month. I also am trying to do better in the area of time management, so that I have time for cleaning, decluttering, caring for DH and the doggies, website work AND writing.
The rest of Saturday was spent relaxing. I was exhausted probably from being up late (for me) on Friday night, and all the stress lately.
DH wasn't able to go to work today...he felt too dizzy and like he was going to pass out, so I didn't want him behind the wheel of his SUV. Since he's out of sick/vacation days, if he can't drive tomorrow, he might just start his short-term disability now, which would mean he'd be on disability for at least 5 weeks (2 weeks until the surgery and at least 3 weeks post-surgery). Whenever he starts the short-term disability, he'll miss a week of pay...so that sucks...but we'll manage. The important thing is his health. Quite frankly, I'm scared of losing him.
Frankly, I'm now scared of losing my sister as well. I talked to her yesterday to tell her about DH, and she told me that her blood test came back with VERY high protein values for her kidneys. She has type 2 diabetes, high BP and high cholesterol, and though she won't know until Thursday when she sees the kidney specialist, but this could be a sign of her kidneys starting to shut down. I'm praying that she doesn't need to do dialysis or a transplant...but of course if she needs a transplant and I'm a compatible match...I've got one to spare.
As for me, my bronchitis is getting better - not 100% yet..but getting there. I'm done with antibiotics and have a few days left of steroids. DH is still cautioning me not to overdo it. He reminds me that I need to get better so that I can be healthy enough to take care of him.
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Mel - I'm sure the inspection this week goes well. I know you feel ready to take back the alarms and such, but PLEASE don't overdo it. It's too easy to relapse, not to mention you don't want the cut on your head to get bad again. And definitely don't let the office or tenants suck you into any drama. I'm not feeling good about your increasing your workload while you're still recovering. And DO NOT cancel your appt next week. Your health is far too important. I'm really glad the doc is calling to check up on your and make sure you're behaving yourself. I know what Jen is going through being exhausted from worry.
Ceejay - Did your sister's place in Branson sustain any damage from the tornados? Bummer that you felt you had to cancel your trip to Missouri. I agree with Shad, do whatever you have to do to get to the birthday/reunion. Families are so important. I hope you're feeling better. Try and get some sunshine - that might help your mood and make you feel better overall.
I'm glad your friend/boss is working with you on your concerns.
Annie - I'm so glad you had such a wonderful weekend and that the tornadoes weren't near you.
So sad about all the devastation and loss of life. You must be getting excited about vacation too! That's excellent you got a good paying cleaning job from your co-worker moving!! I like the March Madness thread title, but I definitely want to move the muck out of March (and my body and DH's body) this month. There's lots I want/need to accomplish...and I will get it all done.
Laura - Thanks for posting the link to more of the mastiff puppy photos! So cute! I've pulled that upper hamstring/glute muscle before and "rolling it out" on a foam roller does help a lot. Another good stretch is to lie on your back in a doorway and put the sore/tight leg vertically up along the door jam and get your butt as close to the wall as you can. I agree with Happy...tennis ball is okay...but not nearly as good as the foam roller. That's a really good hamstring/butt stretch. I hope you had a good weekend with your friend and that the band was good.
Happy - Do you have overhead power lines? We live in the country, but have underground lines so we only lose power when the substation takes a hit. However, with all the wet, heavy snow, several communities with overhead lines in and around Milwaukee lost power for hours. Go figure.
Sounds like you had a lovely drive to Rice Lake! DH goes there at least once per year for work. He really enjoys the scenic drive. Congrats on the $200 win out of the slot machine!! That should definitely cover the cost of a hair appointment.
Wishing you and your DH a happy anniversary!! If you still need stuff from Kohl's, we're having a "Friends and Family" discount weekend coming up March 16-18 to save 20%.
Shad - Unfortunately, they can't do the biopsy any sooner. The doc is away at a conference this week and booked all next week. You're a good sister to help out DB1 with his computer woes.
Anyway, I hope we all have a good day with minimal stress, maximum health for us and our loved ones, and lots of smiles.
Much love and many hugs,