OK well still going after 6 weeks .. not sure if he's Mr Right or just Mr Right Now.. he's a little hard to read and seems to say different things on different days and keeps me guessing! He is nice though and I am getting a lot of er.. exercise!! :carrot:

Hi everyone! I'm still trying to lose weight... still with Jeff, its been more than 4 months now!!! We went away for a week to Terrigal in September - very romantic - and I got more exercise than on my honeymoon with ex husband LOL We are planning another weekend away for mid November - cant wait!!!

Ex husband has been up to his games. Refuses to take my son to his baseball games, stopped his payment for my son's swimming lessons. So I didnt allow my son to see him the past weekend. He had his first baseball tournament, and he really wanted to go. I sent my ex husband two emails, left a message on his phone and he ignored them. I have 100% custody, but allow my son to visit his dad alternate weekends. Made my ex husband rethink ignoring my son's wants. My exhusband is now having my son this weekend, which was one of my suggestions in the first place! Drama! Anyway we have mediation starting again! Hope it resolves everything!

My weightloss has plateaued but I am juggling working full time and being heaps busy with my son, dating and eating out. I have no time lately for intense outdoor exercise with my PT. But I am proud of what I have achieved this year!

Good for you Vanessa, sounds like things are going well.

It's only been 6 or 7 weeks and it has been rocky with my man. I am constantly swaying between ditching and staying, and then he'll be totally lovely and I get sucked in again ;) The main problem is beer.. he likes it a lot more than a) I do and b) I think he should. I don't think he has an alcohol "problem", I just don't like drinking all the time. Plus just about every disagreement has been the result of intoxication. Sigh. He is really sweet and lovely when he doesn't drink too much.

We'll see - he has been stressed out with his work situation but is starting a new job soon that will keep him busy with construction-type stuff 7 days a week, so maybe that will be good for him.

Am getting a lot of exercise under the sheets if not in the gym (!!) so wt is stable around 62-66kg. I am not counting any type of calories anymore and really not worrying about it, although I do weigh in very often to keep an eye on it and I do cut back if my pants feel tight!

Relationship is still good, we just celebrated Christmas with each other's families. Weightloss has plateaued... once again it will be the new year's resolution.

I hope everyone is good and well. How are you all going with the weightloss and relationships?