Home of the Loozing Floozies....(#59)
 

Don't forget to go back to #58 and read the last few posts there!!!! :spin:

Spooky Sherry. Great work!
Will try to post later.
Hope you all have a marvalous day!

DEE

Hello girls!!!!!

Thank you so much for the words of encouragment!!! It is so easy to get caught up in the day to day stuff and not stop and just be thankful that we are alive. I had a really bad day Saturday, it was mid convention, I was tired and stressed from that, plus all of the other things going on. A male in the group acted like a total male and I came home for awhile. The club I am in use to be just a Mans club and I need to realize that even though it is open now to women, that we basically just do the work and the men still get all of the recognition. So, besides being in a horrible mood, I had the "poor me's" and men are not on the top of my favorites list!!! (except poor hubby!!)

Sher: Thank you for always taking the time to start a new thread and I love your banners!!!!!!! You are such a dear!!!!!!!!

Well, I need to get moving today!! I still have a newsletter to complete plus I have my choice of scraping paint or mowing..... hmmmmm..... I will probably leave the scraping to poor hubby, it is on top of the roof on a peak, I am scared to death of heights!!!

Love you girls and again, thank you very much for your kind words and putting up with me until I snap out of this mood!!!! ;)

LOVE, Gayle

I am physically and mentally exhausted. Yesterday was a dozer! My sister Gail decided that she will leave her husband. This is the guy that had the loaded gun. She is in the process of making her plan then will leave. hopefully in the next week or two she will be gone. My concern is for their saftey. This guy is off his rocker and I am afraid just to be vendictive he could kill their son Thomaz and himself. I am trying to encourage her to get a restraining order. Well and my other half of the story is she is intrested in some cowboby from Kansas that she met in a chat room. She want to go and meet him. VERY SCAREY!!!
We had our family meeting again last night. After a lengthy discusion we have decided to let Jay home on a 2 week trial period. He would come in like a boarder with no extras, fending for himself. He will arrive on saturday. I am not ready for this. I let Larry know how I felt and thought that it would be better for Dez and I not to have him come home yet but he could decided what we should do. The trade off for Jay coming home is that Larry is to handle all the problems with the kids. This has been mostly in my hands so this will be a big change but I am unable to handle any more stress with everything going on in my world. It is taking it's toll on my health. My mom thinks that this isn't a good idea that we took him home. I agree but I will give it a chance for 2 weeks. Jay said that he changed. I am just waiting to see how long the honeymoon will last.
Dez found a lump in her breast. I know it is probably nothing but it is scaring the sh*t out of me.
My life feels like a soap opera out of control.

Hope you all had a better day than I did yesterday.

DEE

Dee,
I'm sorry you are having such a stressful time. Please take care of yourself and know that we are all out here thinking of you and sending good vibes your way.

Gayle, have you gotten any rest? What kind of club is it that you are working with?

Shelley, how is your stomach feeling? I hope things are going better.

Sherry and Debbie, are you getting excited about your trip? I know you'll have a great time!

Jennelle, how are things at school? Did you ever get to the bottom of who stole your money?

Vicki, sorry you are so depressed. Don't let it go too far. You have to watch out for your own health too.

Debyj, have you heard from the new job yet? I hope you get it!!!

Carol, and Wanda, come home soon.

I had a first today. POISON IVY!!!!! I've never had it in my life and all of a sudden it is on two of my fingers and on top of my hand. Also my neck is itching like crazy, but no bumps. My brother can look at the stuff through a window and break out from head to toe. LOL I guess it finally caught up to me too.

I'll be keeping a good thought for everyone.
Love,
Ramona

Gosh Dee, I hope life is going better for you today!!!! I guess you can try with your Son and if it doesn't work out, at least you know you gave it your all. Dez will be in my prayers, I know at her age lumps are fairly common. I will be thinking of your Sister, in my circumstance, the restraining order only did as much good as the other person would allow it. He still decided to show up at all hours of the day and night. Usually our Police department is to busy to get right on a domestic call, so it really did not have much bearing for me. KANSAS!!!! Oh my gosh!!!!! Where in Kansas???? Maybe I can check the ol' guy out for your Sis!!!! :lol:

Ramona: How's the itchies????? You poor dear!!!!! Try an Alveena bath or Calimine lotion, seem's to work the best. I have heard of people getting it through a reflection, something about the sunrays hitting the glass. I will be thinking of you!!!!

HOOOOWDY!! :wave:

How are my floozie friends? I'm ok, just another busy day! After work I went to watch Drew bowl in a Tournament.His average is 183. He bowled a 244....202 & 186! Good bowling huh?

Gayle****** First of all, remember we all have "poor-me" days!! You ought to know by now that you can come here & vent anytime!!! I'm kinda glad to hear that other people have days like me!! :lol: Tomorrow is a new day & you WILL snap out of your mood!! {{{ Hugs }}} Love you girl!!

Debbie***** I can't wait until the 24th when we leave.I love Wayne & Drew so much but I NEED A BREAK!!!! This working, cooking, cleaning & maid service is getting to me!!!! LOL!!! Lookin' forward to relaxing & having fun!!! Maybe next year we can plan a trip to Kansas City & see GAYLE!!!!!????

Dee*****Bless your heart hon!! You've had a lot on your plate lately.Where is your CALGON????? I truly hope that everything works out with your Son moving home.Maybe he knows you mean business and he'll do better.I will pray for your Family.Especially Dez. Take care!!!! Thanks for the compliments on my banners.I'm glad you enjoy them as much as I've enjoyed making them! :)

Ramona*****Are you scatching?????? Bless your heart!! I've never had poison ivy either. Maybe benadyl will help!! Now here is the BIG QUESTION: How did you get it????? Have you & hubby been in the woods?????!!!!!!! :o LOL!!! Leave it to me to ask!!!!! LOL!!!

Shelley***** Where are you????????? I saw that you posted on the walking thread.I'm about to die to know about your embarrassing moment during walking!!! Please tell us!!!!!

Vicki***** How are you today? In better spirits? I sure hope so because you deserve happiness!! I bet what you need is a shopping & lunch out day with MIL!!!!

Jennelle & Debyj***** Hope everything is ok with you! Hope to see a post from you soon!!! Debyj.....How did it go at Vanderbilt? Let me know!!!

Carol*****If you're reading this, please know that I'm thinking of you & would love for you to come back.I miss you!!

Talk to everyone later!!
Lots of love,
Sherry (Sher-Bear):cool:

I can't wait til tomorrow Because today will be over!
I don't know how much more this day can hold. Mom just got a call from the doc. She has a lump on her kidneys. Not sure if it is cancer. They found out that her heart is to weak to go with the type of chemo they were going to do so they will be weaker treatments for 6 months. Then radiation treatments for 5 more weeks.
Please pray that this bad karmom goes away. My eyeballs feel like they are going to fall out. I have chosen to stop taking my meds this week and am having a terrible time sleeping.
If I yell STOP load enough do you think everything and everyone would go away for awhile?(don't mean you girls though)

DEE

Hey ladies...I'm still standing! Barely! Really, my problems at school are trivial compared to some of the things my Fellow Floozies are going through. I think all of us need a big :grouphug: !

I never did find out who stole my money. My medication success story, Jamarcus, forgot to take his medicine this morning and ended up punching a pre-K girl (four years old) in the face. (She's okay...she was just terrified, poor thing...and all the kids crowding around her was making it ten times worse...and the fact that I had to raise my voice to get them to back off made it worse). To top it off, one of the other fifth grade teachers told me that she plans on resigning after the fall break, which is next Monday and Tuesday. I can see it coming now.....we will end up not only going back to self-contained classrooms, but they will refuse to hire a new teacher and we will end up with 35 kids a piece in our classrooms. If that happens, I have a plan that involves insisting on an emergency school board meeting AND calling the media.

But like I said...I'm alive, I'm healthy, my family's healthy...I should be thankful. (My arse is still wide, though! :lol: )

Sound's like everyone is having a few pits with their bowl of cherries!!!!:lol:

Jen: I hope your job get's better!!!! I agree with you, that is waaaayyyyy to many kids to try to be keeping under control!!! You will end up being a babysitter instead of a teacher!!!

Dee: {{{{HUGS}}}}} Life will get better!!! Remember that God only give you enough that you can handle. PLEASE take your meds!!!! I know your upset about everything, but you need to stay as healthy as you can during this difficult time.

Sher: Did I hear you say Kansas City??? WHOO-HOO!!!! Lets go!!!! All Aboard!!!!!!!! That would be way cool!!!! BTW: Give Drew a HUGE hug from me!!!!! He is quite the jr bowler!!! We bowled this past weekend with our convention. There is a lady in the club with a horrible vision problem. We allowed her a high handicap plus we changed the scoring a bit. On the last game, she kicked our butts!!! She was so excited that she announced it in the Monday morning meeting that a "blind lady beat Gayle!!!!" I told everyone that she had an unfair advantage, all we had to do was spin her around and point her in the right direction!!!:lol:

Ramona: I want to hear more about this "hunting" in the woods with hubby story!!!!!! :D BTW: I am a member of Ambucs, we help people with disabilities.

Well today is a new day after I wiped out a WHOLE box of small donuts yesterday!!!! I am such a huge pig!!!! I need to get my act together quick before my new nickname becomes "waddles"!!

HAVE A GREAT DAY!!! SMOOCHIES, HUGS & LOVE, Gayle

Hi Girls-I just haven't been able to post much. I have been checking out the messages at work, but don't have time to post anything.

Dee-My heart goes out to you. Just remember "This too shall pass". I agree with Gayle. God does give you enough that only you can handle. It's looking like you can handle quite a bit though!! Please take your meds. You need them. Also, I know you aren't supposed to walk a whole bunch, but I'm sure that you need it right now to help you stay calmer.

The dr. called to change my appt. to next Wed. instead of Mon. The good news is that they gave me 1 month more of medication so that I could begin taking it again. My stomach is still the worst it's ever been. I really think it's nothing that about $100,000.00 wouldn't cure!!!:lol:

Ramona-We have a lot of poison ivy growing wild around here. My kids and hubby know what it looks like, but I can never tell the difference between it and regular ivy. Luckily, I've never had it though.

Jennelle-Maybe they'll go ahead and hire another teacher. They might just surprise you! We've been hiring them right and left. Of course, they come and go too.

Vicki-I'm sorry you have been depressed. It must be something in the air. If you have read back, I have been very depressed lately too. What with money problems, work and health problems. I just keep taking that PROZAC!!

Gayle,Debbie,Deby,Carol-I'm sending hugs your way!!

Just know that I am around, I just may not be able to post much. I love you all!!

Hi girls I thought that I would post something a little more positive than my last few posts.
Just wondering if any of you have been to see My big fat greek wedding? Nia Vardalos the writer and main star is from where I live. Our city is small, 650,000 people and definitley far from hollywood. It is so neat that a small budget film could make it so big. All the reviews that I read about it are so positive. To think that she was asked to do a sequal or a sitcom. Last night Queen Victoria was here in the city. Nia was one of the lucky 8 that dined at the queens head table. She said it was so neat. The queen asked her many questions about her life and the film. All Nia wanted to do was ask her what it was like to be a queen....lol.
Well that's all for now I just thought that I would let you know that the stress hasn't swallowed me up yet.

DEE

Hello girls!!!

I hope life is treating everyone better today!!!!!

Dee: I can't place the movie, but I will be on the look out for it. Are you a personal friend to this lady? I will be thinkung of your Mother, I hope she gets good test results. BTW: Did you find out the name of the town in Kansas of the cowboy? I'm curious, plus I can probably tell you if it is close by me and if it is a larger city or smaller town.

Shelley: SO GLAD YOU POSTED!!! I have been really concerned about you!!! I hope your tummy gets better soon! Is the medication helping yet?

Hugs to all of my other Floozie buds!!!!!!!

All of you with kids that have Graduated: How in the world did you afford it???? We have to get the announcements ordered by next week, which the cost was about what I figured. The Senior pics end up being about twice as much as planned, and this is going with just what we need and no extras. I priced around for a photographer, of which I am really pleased, I just did not realize that it all added up so quick and that everyone wants their money NOW!! Any advice will be appreciated!!!!

HAVE A GREAT OP DAY!!!! Love, Hugs & Smoochies!!!!! Gayle

Gayle believe it or not I know that he is just outside of Kansas city. He lives on a dude ranch for vacationers. I will find out the name and see if you heard of it or if you can check him out. It is greatly appreciated that you would even concider this. To me US is very different place than here and not as many laws as we have. The one that blows me away is the gun laws. This guy apparently has a web site whick I have seen. But is it his. As soon as I find out what it is again I will let you know.
Thanks.

DEE

Hi Floozies!
I'm going to try and post a picture my SIL sent of my 5 year old nephew, Thomas. She calls it "Baby James Dean":lol:

Ramona he is beautiful. That is a wonderful pic.
Gayle here is the address for this guys ranch
www.jlazzytranch.homestead.com
Do you live close by or could you call there?

DEE

Gayle swooning......:dizzy:
Ramona: If only I was 5 years old again!!!! He is a SWEETHEART!!!! SO CUTE!!!!!! He will be a heart breaker one of these days!!!!

Deb: It's true!!!! Wiped out a whole package of those little suckers! I can never stop at one or two, guess thats why I constantly fight the battle of the bulge!!! I hope you get some much deserved rest!!!

Dee: Tried the address, but it kept saying it was not a valid address. I did some searching and all I could come up with is a dude ranch (Homestead Ranch) in Matfield Green KS???? Is this it? It is about 2 hours southwest of Kansas City, our largest city. The population of Matfield Green was only 60 in 2000!!!!! Talk about out in the sticks!!! It only has one commercial establishment open and running, a cowboy bar/cafe!!! No wonder the poor guy hangs out on the internet!!! :lol:

I hope everyone had a GREAT day today!!!! I worked on a new project today, will fill all of you in as it progresses!!!

HUGS, LOVE & HAPPINESS!!!!!! Gayle

Howdy Girls!!

Bootwoman!!--That youngin is adorable!! Maybe we can hook him up with my niece-she is 6 and of course beautiful!! heeee

Well girls, sorry i haven't posted in a while. I have my interview with Vanderbilt Hospital this morning and i am terrified!! I've been up practically all night. Of course, i work 3rd shift, so my sleep is all messed up anyway!! Please send up a prayer for me today!! I don't pray to get the job. I just pray that the Lord will guide me in the right direction.

Thanks-i will keep ya'll updated!!--debyj:D

Debyj sending an angel for you.
Gayle check back to that site again. Sorry I didn't try the address but I missed a letter. Amazing what that will do. It is fixed now and it works.
Debbie glad to see that you posted. How are you doing besides not liking the rain. We are suppose to get some flurries today again. I will trade you for the rain. lol

Well tomorrow is the big day when Jay comes back home for the 2 week trial period. Larry showed him the house rules and he was quit upset about them. I don't know how this is going to work. The rules were basic ones like if he is having a guest over for dinner he can help make dinner and he also has to give 24 hours notice. Jay is a junk food addict so we said that our pop and snacks are off limit unless he asks first. He use to search and eat everything that we had put away for later. Clean up after himself pronto is another rule. They aren't major life alterating rules.

I think I am going to go eat that turkey and pumkin pie all by myself! Oh yeah you girls probably haven't got aclue what I am talking about. It is our canadian thanksgiving weekend. So I will eat some for you girls too. lol

DEE

Debyj***** I will be thinking of you today!!!!!! If it is meant to be, then it will be!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

Ramona...what a cutie he is.

Hello everyone the depression is getting better. Things are going ok.
Sherry....Going shopping with the MIL would keep me depressed, I'd rather take my dog shopping than her.

Keeping this short but want to say sorry haven't posted much of late. have a good wk/end.

Dee - don't know why he would be upset about those rules...they sound like basic rules of life and courtesy to me...I wish you the best during this trial period and I will be thinking about you often!

Everyone - I'm seriously considering resigning from my school. It has just gotten to be too much. I wrote a scathing letter to the parents, and it's a good thing I slept on it before I sent it! :lol: You'd be hearing about me on the Nightly News! It basically said that 90% of the children in my class were lacking the basic core values of respect, courtesy, kindness, empathy, honesty, and a sense of work ethic. I flat out said that these were things that these children should have been taught a LONG time ago at home, and that I was tired of parents dropping their kids off at the schoolhouse door and expecting me to do THEIR job. Like I said, it's a good thing I slept on it....

Anyhow, we have Fall Break on Monday and Tuesday, so I'm going to go to my local school district and see if they have any openings for either long-term subs or teacher's aides. (I don't think they have any teaching positions open still.) There are some teaching positions open up in Memphis, but I'm not sure I want to work for the Memphis City Schools. (Out of the 95 failing schools in Tennessee, 45 of them were in Memphis.)

Hello :wave:

Just a real short post saying hi. I've been real busy today cleaning & washing.Debbie & I work the Titans game tomorrow & I need to get ready for bed.

Ramona.....Thomas (Your nephew) is the cutest little boy I've ever seen!!! Does he model? If not, he could!!!

Hope everyone has had a great weekend so far! More later...

Sherry (Sher-Bear):cool:

Dee: HAPPY THANKSGIVING DAY MONDAY!!!! Have a great one!!!

Looks like everyone is busy! Have a GREAT weekend!!!!

Dee: I checked out the site and it worked this time. Emporia is just outside of Kansas City, probably about 4.5-5 hours from me. It looks pretty legit... is he the one advertising the site as owner? I did a people search and his name appeared with the same address and the last number listed in the site ad.