Isn't that video monitor the best? I wish I had had that when Shane was a baby, I'd go in and check on him all the time.
So gross about that woman's house. We had something similar happen with us going to a friend's house, it was just horrid. The boy is autistic and so there was also human feces around.

Needless to say, we won't be going there again. You really never know.
Go try out a whole bunch of groups, ours is for 30 - 40 yr olds.
I have to think about my goals....