Katy~I forgot to say that I agree with you about DeAnna. She does keep saying the same things over and over. So maybe Twilly will be totally perfect for her, lol.

Mindee~Mmmm..chocolate chip cookies!!! :drool:

Cristina~That sucks about the game..but I hope it doesnt rain on thursday!!

Omg Sassy..I seriously didnt mean anything like that at all. I'm sorry if I made you think that they could be monitaring your computer. I feel horrible now. I am so sorry. You should feel free to vent anytime. I mean, its really good for you. Its better than keeping it all inside. Being postive is good too, of course. But dont stop venting. I talk so much crap too. I always worry that the navy could be spying on me. I am so sorry!!!

Francie
 

Why is it that Myspace is the only website that isnt working for me right now?!?!??!?! All I wanna do is look for a new layout, thats it. But no it has to go and be difficult and give me a flippin headache.

And love songs should be banned to anyone who is alone. I cannot stop listening to them right now, :cry: And not only that...but I feel like watching The Notebook & Titanic. You know things are going bad for me, when I start watching sad movies, lol.

Ya..I should go to bed now before I put one of those movies in, lol.

I'm SOOOOOOO depressed.
 

Sassy, to answer your question... we can see if someone has logged on if we look at their profile. And yes, it tells us when they last logged on.
If you need anything, perhaps you could send me a PM. We don't always read every post, and I wouldn't want to miss a request.

Also, I just wanted to send you a big hug. :hug: I'm so sorry you have to put up with that from your co-workers. They must be real winners. :rolleyes: Remember your worth. It is much greater than that of someone who would stoop to name-calling.
And your husband... sometime even the best of husbands/friends don't say what we want to hear. I have a wonderful husband (and he's a social worker, so shouldn't he be perfect?), but sometimes I have to say, "I need you to say/do this for me right now."
You are worth great things, and you're capable of anything. Hang in there, girl. :hug:

just stopping by while I have a quick second. all three kids are awake, but it is sounding like it will be nap time here shortly!

Sassy :hug:..I'm so sorry about what those evil *****es said. Omg, do I have to go down there and kick some ***, because I totally will. They are worthless pieces of crap, and they shouldn't have made you feel like that. :hug: Unfortunately..it doesnt probably ever stop. People will never grow up and learn how to be decent. You should've said something to them, like.."I can hear you, ya know!!!!!!!!!!!" You are so much better than they are..and they know it too.

God..I cant believe the nerve of some people. That just makes me so angry. :hug: We are here for you :grouphug:

I couldn't have said it better myself, Francie...I shall not repeat the string of expletives that came out of my mouth when I read Sassy's post

((((Sassy)))) we are here for you..don't let those beyotches call the shots! You are so much better than them!

Twirly..haha I used to think that the winners of these shows were really the people who were sent home, lol! I had forgotten about that...now with DeAnna who is a bit of a princess (imo) I am beginning to remember! I watched the Bachelor with Bob and he was so sleazy I felt sorry for the ladies who made it to the overnights - ewww

I went to aerobics - yay! I hope my pedometer gets here soon so I can see how close to 10000 I am getting. I am going to work on my sewing project this morning, then take the kids to the park this afternoon so they can use the new gear. Have a great day, everyone!

Hello ladies...

Decided to do my grocery shopping today...had to get a gift card and send to my dad for Father's Day. I never know what he wants or needs...my mom says he needs nothing, nor wants anything but I know they just say that. This way he can get what he wants or needs...he is happy whatever he gets so...got my walk in early this morning before it go too hot. Wasn't so bad because the wind was blowing about 45 mph...geez...got a good workout trying to walk in it...it was strong. Other than that not a lot going on today. Will do a load of laundry and I hope to get some reading done. Then later on we will be heading to Chase's game, if it doesn't rain. Supposed to some time today, or this evening. The gas is killing me driving to them, lol. He has one Thursday as well...one of the makeup games.

SASSY...you first, lots and lots of hugs to you! :hug: :hug: I am so sorry that you are having to deal with idiots on the job, and that is the last straw! What is wrong with those people? :mad: :devil: Don't let the stupids of the world get to you, I know that is easier said than done but like Francie said, you are better than that. And I am sorry too that dh didn't get the job.

JULES...my first marriage one of my friends asked me if I dated much, and how I ended up with DH...she thought he was ugly, lol. One of my brothers, when I was dating said she can do better than that, and same with V. Just cracks me up that they put so much into looks rather the person. Teri is young so she has plenty of time and I wish her the best in whatever she decides. Who knows, maybe this guy will be the one. How are you doing today? Feeling better after giving blood? I NEED to go give blood! I keep meaning to and keep forgetting.

SUE...WTG on getting the pedometer! I should have checked in here before going to buy groceries because I forgot to get one, ugh! And...WTG on the 4 mile walk & 3 mile bike ride! :woohoo: How is your mom feeling? Glad you guys had a nice lunch together.

KATY...funny that DD wanted the skateboard and DS wanted the inline skates. The kids always loved the inline skates...I never could stand up with them on. But loved, loved skatboarding in CA! Don't think I would attempt one now...would probably break my hip. You sound like my oldest sis...when she was about 9 I think, maybe a little older. Her and some friends decided to go skatboarding off the side of the freeway...there was a hill and it wasn't too close to it. She watched a few people go and thought, that looked cool. So when she went she hit a rock and went tumbling down...they had to shave the side of her head and I can' remember how many stitches she got but she never did that again!

MINDEE...we did have a nice time at the game even though we didn't see Chase play. They went off to practice and we stayed and visited and watched the big guys play...it was a nice time. So nice and cool out too! I think next time I make sugar cookies I will try some cinnamon too! Of course that won't be until Christmas time, lol. Bummer about Tommy not getting that job. And while it may seem wrong to wish the job doesn't work out for the other guy, I think we only want whats best for "our" family and Tommy getting that job would be good for you guys.

SUSAN...Chase just turned 9 this past April. For some reason I thought he turned 10...still can't get it right, lol. He's a sneaky little one he is, there's something about him I don't like...is that wrong, lol? But I am working on it because I have to...can't have any favortism. He picks on his little sis a lot too, A LOT! Char lets him get away with a lot...maybe that's what it is. But it's not my place to say anything, unless he is in my house, lol. Hey...where do you find all your name avatars? I have been trying to find one with mine, and my spelling but can't, or haven't yet. Anyway, I like them! Did you guys make it to the Zoo? I wouldn't want to go in the rain either...it's no fun in the rain...plus it messes up your hair, lol. The teacher card was sweet, Gaby is a cutie for sure! Sorry about Miss Rach :hug:

CLARA...take care of the foot! I need to go have my right one looked at, keep having this pain on the side. If I skip a day or two of walking/exercise it sometimes is okay but I think it is getting worse. Just don't want to go to the doc...I think I am afraid she will tell me NO walking! Then...I would die, lol. Sounds like you are doing great with your working out! :carrot:

FRANCIE...I like your thinking missy! I think I too would go for the 3 bedroom too! Nothing like having tons of space and WTG on looking and planning ahead. This way unless they (the military) send you elsehwere you won't have to move when you get preggers. And lots of hugs to Fonzo! :hug: Hope he is having a better day today! And go get your cheeseburger! Lol

Okay, I believe I am all caught up now. That's about all I have...I think I have blabbed enough, lol. Take care everyone, and have a good day! :hug:

It is hump day!! Happy Wednesday to us all.

:hug::hug: Sassy - I guess we all just have to come on down to your work place and kick some a$$es?? We can walk there and multi task at the same time! So, frustrating, I am sorry you have to go through all the crap on a daily basis :)

Katy Depending on the park I might see you there today! The incoming 1st graders are meeting Wednesdays at C park at 3:30. btw - how many 1st grade classes is your school going to have next year?? Mine is set at 3 right now.
Deanna is no wonderful catch and I am kind of liking Brad now...ha. I hear Jesse is actually pretty wealthy and ya....Bob was gross, I couldn't even watch that series.

Clara- yay, nice to see you posting.:D Hope the doctor clears you for walking.

Jules - I think I will go to the zoo tomorrow. It is suppose to start getting into the mid 70's. I also picked up some hand tools from my sister so I want to get out in the yard and weed, it feels like a jungle out there :D

Mindee- I can make some great peanut butter and oatmeal raisin cookies, never tried sugar cookie. Sorry about the mix up on the last day of school , am I reading that right? Yesterday I gave the teacher a hug and it was me that teared up, Gaby was fine. The night before she was saying " I am going to miss Miss.H,I can't stand it!!!"

Sue- I am glad you got your pedometer working! I am still trying to figure out mine..lol What kind did you get??

Francie - I finished the Babyville book, it was ok, readable. I didn't understand the Jill and Dan couple, that was mean. Any luck on the moving??

Cristina - Sorry about the game mix up! Sounds like you had fun though.

Tammy - Come and chat w/ us!!

ok my feeble attempt at indi's :) I tried. Feel like I am behind now.
My pms is better, no aches this morning and I think I was jut really tired because I slept from 8pm and didn't wake up til 6am, maybe all the added walking??
My nephew that passed away would have had his 17th birthday this Saturday, so I am trying to help my sister put together something for his friends ((from high school)), they all still come over to visit with her, which is awfully sweet of them.
What else?? Oh, sent rach to her friends last night so I could have some peace, I get such anxiety from her, she really needs to get on and stay on some meds for her mood swings, driving me batty.

k- chat at you all later!!

Cristina -
You sneaked in while I was trying to write. Gab keeps bugging me.....

Try photobucket and plug in *name of Cristina*....I like the Susan ((the one w/ the lady in the dress))one that I had but that was a different site and now I can't get it back for some reason.
It isn't wrong to have a kid rub you the wrong way. There is a lot of kids I don't like and some even call me *mom*.....haha

Hugs to you!!

Hiya MS Susan! Forgot I was still logged on here, lol. Took a break and took the doggie out to potty and was farting around upstairs while he was out. Yeah, I don't know what it is about him, but I am trying...I would never be mean to him though, couldn't do that. But he makes it hard, very hard. Thanks, I will try that. You are a sweetie for helping your sis...I know how hard this has to be for her...but remembering him and celebrating his life in that way will be good for everyone. Hope you have a great day! Hugs!

Sassy--Hugs to you. I don't understand how some people can be so rude. It makes my blood boil when I hear things like that. Unfortunately I am usually so shocked when I hear things like that, I don't come back with one of the 1001 things I think of later, my kids on the other hand don't have the same problem. They both are very vocal and speak up and get involved. Ry is really bad when it comes to a guy abusing a girl. Teri is very sensitive when it comes to weight even though she has never been big--probably cause I am not small.

Suzyq--Teri has some wicked mood swings but she usually calls back and apologizes. Sorry, Rach has to be such a brat.

Cristina--I think Teri is coming to a place where she wants to be the one taken care of or at least in a relationship where it is 50/50. She has never dated coverboys...well she did a few times but she says shes is not high maitenance enough to have a guy that is more beautiful than she is--she doesn't want to have to keep herself up--if she wants to wear sweats she will wear sweats and put her hair in a ponytail--her words!! She really loves Dave, but she is remembering all the bad things. SHe made the comment to me in December before she had the baby that she was going to stay with Dave for the six weeks she couldn't work so he could help Ry with the bills and then she was done. They argued alot. Then he went to jail and she feels sorry for him and dooesn't want to hurt him. He is being sweet for the most part but the only people that write or go see him are his parents and her. He says he's done with his friends that cause alot of drama between him & Teri, but I am sure they will be back when he gets out.

Katy--I brought my pedometer to use when I took my walks at break time and forgot to put it on!!

Francie--I was listening to the XM station on Direct TV that plays nothing but LOVE SONGS last Friday....I just get in a sappy mood sometimes!!

Back to work--hi to everyone else!!

Back again for a few minutes...

JULES...Dave is going to say everything Teri wants to hear while he's in that place of course. I just hope what he is saying he sticks with, should she decide to stay with him. And I agree with her...I do wear my hair in a ponytail most days, lol. But yeah, she definitely deserves to be taken care of.

FRANCIE...I LOVE the oldies too! You should hear my iPod...daughter said shouldn't you have fast songs on there. I told her yeah, but for me if I have stuff that I love it's even better. So I have quite the mix.

SASSY...how are you doing missy? :hug: Don't stay away from here/us when feeling down...we are here for you!

I swear everytime I open my mouth I stick my foot in it. I never can quite get out on paper/in a post what I am trying to say and I think it always comes out wrong. My intentions are good, but I don't think it comes across as such, ugh.

Okay, better get going. Gotta be getting ready for the big game, woohoo! GO COLTS!!! :cheer:

Sassy~:hug: again. Are you feeling any better?? Please dont let those dumb butts get you down.

Katy~What are the chances that DeAnna and the dude actually get married?? Given the shows history with the relantionships. Theres only been one marriage that I can think of. And they have a baby now, so they're pretty happy.

Cristina~I sent the info about the apartment to Fonzo, I dunno he got it or not. He hasnt mentioned anything to me about it yet. Ahhh..I wish I was moving right now!!! I wanna be out of this state forever.

Susan~For a good Jane Green book..you should read Mr. Maybe (have you read that yet??) or Bookends. Straight Talking was pretty good too. Babyville..not so good, lol.

Jules~I think theres some channels on Wave that just plays music. I should totally check them out sometime. Believe it or not..we have like 900+ channels..and I've only gone as far as 790, lol. Which is the end of the Starz channels, lol.

Mindee~I found a recipe online for sugar cookies..and as soon as I'm done here, I'll be making some, lol. Of course, I always add a little cinnamon in my cookies, cuz I love all things cinnamon, lol. Mmm...now I want a box of Hot Tamales. WTF is up with my cravings lately?!?!?! LOL!!!


OKay well...I had a weird day, lol. I woke up too early, and then went back to bed after I emailed everyone that emailed me. I woke up about an hour ago, lol. My tiny little kitty was sleeping right next to me..and it felt like sleeping next to Fonzo. She gave off so much body heat that I woke up covered in sweat. Ughh, I hate that.

Oh ya..does anyone here like the movie..Jesus Christ Superstar? Because Amazon just sent me my order..and they sent me 2 dvds of that one by mistake. So I'm gonna give it away to anyone who wants it. And how come they can send me dvds asap..but when I want my books, it takes weeks and weeks. Its annoying.

Okay..off to bake some cookies!!!! YAY!!! :carrot:

Cristina~I love oldies so much, lol. Some of my friends find that weird..but whatever. I grew up listening to it, lol. I have a bunch on my ipod too, lol. Have fun at the game!!!

Cristina - How bout these?? I like the one I sent to your myspace but there are a lot of cute ones once you get into the higher pages like after 30....on photobucket and I found them all under Cristina.....hope that helps!! Hugs to you.
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Hi to Jules and Francie too!!

oh, ya Francie I did read Mr Maybe. What about To have and to hold??

:hug: to Sassy - hope you are having a good day...and a :hug: to Cristina - you are the sweetest person!

Better get my hair cut and my weeds pulled. lol

:wave: hugs for everyone!

I didnt like To Have and To Hold either, lol. It was okay, but not one of my faves.


My friend just informed me that what I'm baking are snickerdoodles, lol. So whatever..it tastes good either way, lol. Of course, I'm eating more of the dough than the actual cookies..my first batch is still in the oven.

Omg..these cookies are to die for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wanna gobble them all up right now, lol. I've decided to bake Fonzo some peanut butter cookies (his fave) when he gets home. He'll probably eat them all in 2 mins, lol.

Howdy ladies...

SUSAN..those are great! Now to see if I can copy them and use as an avatar. THANK YOU! :hug: Did you get your hair cut? Just a trim or a new style?

FRANCIE...I am surprised at DD...she is your age and LOVES the oldies! Of course all three of the kids have my taste & love of music. We all love all kinds and I always had music playing so they've loved it since they were little. We always watched MTV together too, lol. Of course that was when MTV actually played music. Yeah, snickerdoodles are the best cookies ever! Too similar to the sugar...eat one, or two for me.

Well ended up not going to the game, geez, if it's not one thing it's another. So I was on my way, stopped at Subway and picked up sandwiches for all of us (me, DD, Char & Chase), went to Sonic next door to get a drink because for some odd reason their diet cokes are to die for! Then I noticed my check engine light on, ugh! Didn't know what to do...whether I should chance going and it not being anything serious or just head back hope. We hoped for home. The road to where the game is and where they live in country all the way...paved, but country. No side road should someone break down...I would be stuck in the middle of the street. I got home and checked under the hood and saw I needed some anti-freeze...thing was dry. So put some in but the light was still on. Hoping that since the vehicle was hot, that it will cool down and be okay. So yeah, that's how my evening has gone so far. Oh, and V left his cell at home so no way to get in touch with him if I broke down. And the bad part...could it get worse, lol...yeah it could. But they are out where you can't get a signal on the cell so not a place I want to break down. Anyway...going to go do some much needed reading...I am laggin behind in my reading for sure.

I will start a new thread tomorrow morning if no one else does. Have a good night all!

Cristina~My mom used to watch Mtv with me too. We'd always watch the shows together and the music videos (when they actually played the videos, lol). My grandma was like that too. She'd always listen to her kid's music. That sucks about the car..but better safe than sorry. Man, you have me wanting Subway & Sonic right now, lol. I hope theres a Sonic in MD, lol.

Hey ya'll.....

Cristina - How I did the avatar is click on the picture and save as to my desk top and after that go to 3fc and download. I noticed it couldn't be a gif (?) or bmp (??) it had to be the ones that start with a jpg (?) :dizzy: I know, I am computer ******ed, I don't know how I do what I do as it is........trial and error....there you go. Couple week ago I had my gas light on (it is always on these day) door light, oil light and brake light on.....lol. I thought my car was going to explode.
As far as my hair I haven't had a chance yet to do that - I want to just take 1 or 2 inches off.
I started working in the yard and JUST made a dent. I swear the landlord must pull in something for the 8 plexes there but no yard maintenance. UGH about the games getting postponed!

Francie - The thing w/ Jane Greene is she writes pages on *nothing*....very detailed writer. Snookerdoodles are wonderful, I think PB is my fave though. I will try Straight Talk next, thanks.

Jules - Thanks about the Rach thing, she is a challenge. I can't believe the anxiety w/ her.....

I just wanted to say hi again. I breezed through before this morning. I walked 2 miles and that was it.....I will try and get better. Eating to good and water is no problem....
Gaby goes to my mothers in the morning and I am going to court w/ her father. Regarding a restraining order on former wife. Long story....the order has been active for 2 years and he hasn't seen his daughter. I know he is annoying as **** at times but he deserves to see his children, even if it is suervised. And I know for a fact some of what is in the order is nothing but lies because I was there with the ex wife reagrding the night in question. Blah blah.....it is hard trying to write this done and make sense!! lol

Night :)

OMG I can't keep up with you ladies on the walking. I got up and walked early today, 2 miles. Luckily I went by the mile markers because me ped. only registered 800 steps. Ha... I don't know if it was wrong the rest of the day or not...said I got another 1.5 miles, so I took 3.5 for the day and a 1 mile bike ride. I will check it when I walk in the morning and if it doesn't count right it is going back to the store. SO, yah..here I can't catch you chicks on a good day...then the ped. screws me out of steps. geeze... Too bad I don't move a lot when I iron 'cause that is what I did this afternoon. ugh...

Will do indies tomorrow... Have a good night ladies.

I need some advice please.


I dunno if I mentioned this or not..but awhile ago, I wrote to my cousin and apologized to her. All I got in response was a "thank you". It kinda made me mad, but whatever..I just figured she wasnt ready to say it back to me..and I moved on.

Well..today I checked my hotmail, and she sent me a email. This is what it said:


I'm not sure what to do. I know things will be different between all of us again. But it would be nice to be back on friendly terms again. I honestly, do not want to see them for awhile though. I'm so confused right now..I dunno what to say to her...

just popping back in here.........but you ladies were very chatty while I was gone!

Francie~ I love snickerdoodles! If I am thinking right, that is the movie with music by Andrew Lloyd Webber, isn't it? I saw pieces of it a long time ago.

not too much going on here really.......I think Wood Chuck, I mean Marissa, was the only one that took a nap today. So, it was an early bedtime for the boys. Which was nice anyways since they turned into devil spawn by the time they were ready for bed.

I think I forgot to mention......but earlier they decided to make pancakes.....together, but in separate rooms. Brandon was in the kitchen with the syrup on the floor! and Logan was in the living room sitting on the couch with the dumped box of pancake mix! You could of made some pancakes when I put them into the bath tub!

Hello Ladies.
 

Mindee~Yes..the music is by Andrew Loyd Webber. Its this dvd..http://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Christ-S...3250227&sr=8-1 Its a pretty good movie. That is so funny about the kids trying to make pancakes, LOL!!! Even though, I probably would've barfed at the smell of syrup, lol.

Sassy~You should totally look for another job. You deserve to work someplace that doesnt make you all stressed out. I wish I could stop eating when I got stressed out, lol. You should at least eat a salad or some fruit or something light.


Sooooo...I talked to Fonzo again tonight. He called me during So You Think You Can Dance..but that was okay, lol. He's feeling better from yesterday. He even gave me a homecoming date thats been floating around. So I hope it sticks and they'll come home on that day.

So ya..nothing else to say really...TTYL!!

Sassy- Again, hugs to you for what you are going through. I think you are coming up with some good plans out of this mess however. The first being to find another job. Also, like Francie says, you have to eat, so just make it something light that you like. Too bad you don't like cereal...that is my salvation at times when I am hungry/stressed. I reach for a bowl of cereal and skim milk. Or even a piece of toast with light topping. My comfort foods. :) You will find the right path for yourself, I have confidence in you. (Listen to me Missy, I am old enough to be your Mother!!)

Francie- Yay for having a date for Fonzo to return. How did the cookies turn out?

Mindee- Laughing here about the boys making pancakes. Just think another year and Marissa will be right in there with them. Maybe she will get the jelly or the eggs. LMAO. Okay, okay, maybe it ISN"T funny if you are the one to have to clean it up. Sure is humorous from where I am sitting though. :)

Susan- Good luck in court with the ex. Sounds like a fun morning...not. :) I have been to court once in my life, to get a divorce, and that was enough for me. So ugly! I bet Gaby is so excited about summer and being with Mommy. The zoo sounds like a fun day. My DH hates zoos, so since my grands are grown I don't go at all.

Cristina- Another thing I miss, Little League. Those were some fun days. I'm like you, I would not have taken a chance with the car. Hope it is fixed and good to go. My back window messed up yesterday...went down and won't go all the way up. It is power and it made a terrible noise. The other back one did that 2 years ago and cost $400. for a new motor. Yikes. We are trading this car in sometime soon, so might not fix it...let the dealer.

Katy- Did you all have fun at the park? You are sure getting the exercise in. I would like to find an aerobics or exercise class, but don't want to pay for a gym. What type pedometer do you have coming? I am not thrilled with the cheapy I bought. I still think it robbed me...but this morning I walked and it seems to have done okay. Got 2 miles in before coffee. If I got steps for time on the computer I would be one skinny chick. :)

Jules- I also don't think you are bad for wanting your daughter to be with a guy who treats her right. She needs a partner to be there for her. Someone who will help instead of needing her help 24/7. If her heart is with Dave then I certainly hope he has changed. (and who needs a nut job for a MIL?) ha

Tammy, Clara, where did you girls run off too? I hope if you DID run off it involves sun, sand and margaritas. Hurry back.....

Being lazy after a walk and picking up around the house. I have to go to the Dr. this afternoon, so yuck! I hate getting the full body "look over" by the dermatologist. Just creepy. But I am 5 years cancer free, so I will put up with the check-ups. Some days I do wish I could bask in the sun...but I never did do that, so guess it just sounds appealing since I can't. Ha. Sunscreen should be your best friend ladies, for you and your little ones. (my public service announcement.) Now...Mother Sue is going to get some work done. :)

Francie- I forgot to put my 2 cents in on the advice you requested. I am all for forgiving and moving on to spend time with family. Especially if this is someone who was very close with you in the past. Now, I don't know the situation that caused the problems, so you have to be the judge on the severity of the actions. I do know there are some things that can not be forgiven, but it is worth a try if you are missing the closeness of the family. Just my point of view...and by no means the right one for everyone.