BTW, I've already tweaked my goal for Dec. to match what I hope I can actually achieve (I think).

Canuk4:

Good evening my dear friends, it is so good to be able to chat with you all and about so many things, mainly our weight and exercise, but also our ups and downs.

Definately. You all are the best! :hug:

Jasmine I am glad your X pulled through the surgery, I am sure you will know more in a few days, re his condition and the cause. It is so great the kids got presents from the both of them, I really hope you get those pictures and can post them.

Yeah I am going to probably send an email to her after the holidays and ask for the pics! After that i am going to not call or anything, lets see if they do anything else. My bestfriend who we talk once every few months now and live 70 miles apart was really disgusted with him not taking part in their lives, cause like I said he did have a car once he got ssi and he had been rumored to be in the area many times, i.e. my friend and her cop dh. :lol: Julie said something like I just think he didn't want to bopther. *rolls eyes* Anyhow my best friend said it seems to her that he will come around on all the pooor me holidays like x~mas and his b~day! And you know what, the only other call I got all year was from his bestfriends sis around his b~day, her calling to ask if SHE could have the kids to come for her kids b~day party! I told her sorry we are celebrating Karolina's b~day that weekend! Andd she was like well charlie hasn't seen the kids in forever, I said, oh, well you have HIM call me and make arrangements!(NOT HER!!! who the heck does she think she is calling and asking for my kids!?! she isn't even family of theirs!!) SHe said well his car isnt big enough so we need you to bring them, I told her I don't even have a car! But he is more than welcome to have them or come visit whenever he likes! *sigh*

I'll talk at ya ladies more later but my dh is rushing me! We need to go get the rental van! Merry X~mas everyone!!!

Merry Christmas Eve everyone!:) I'm sitting here eating a cookie and getting ready for a gathering tonight. :D When will these cookies be gone???? I know when I eat them all!:o Anyway just kidding, but I really wanted to wish everyone a wonderful holiday. :hug:

Merry Xmas! I got out of touch for awhile and overwhelmed by the posts but I am still mostly back on track.

I have got to figure out what to do when my exercise gets sidelined. I am DEFINITELY one of those people who has exercise controlled depression. And it takes quite a bit of INTENSE exercise too. So when my exercise got sidelined the last 2 weeks with my son's illness, by the end of last week I was a basket case. - Hence my dropping out of this particular thread...dont ask me why but depression makes me do that. Ignore the people who could give me support.

Got my 3rd run in 3 days in this morning and I am starting to feel human again.

I do have to figure out a strategy for dealing when I cant exercise. Last year I sprained my ankle very badly..couldnt walk, run, swim or bike with it and it took about 3 months to heal....and by the end I was on the verge of divorce I was so freaking out of control.

Well I guess I'll take this thread over to the depression thread see if they have any ideas!

Anyway a very merry Xmas to all.

Ennay, I am sorry to hear you're not feeling your best and I hope you feel better soon.

And to all of us... :snowglo: MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!:gift2:

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Everyone come join the new thread!