Diamonda: I was significantly overweight from the ages of 8 until I was 23 weighing over 200lbs from 14-23. So during all those happy formative years, I always thought myself as obese and had it often iriterated from my peers etc (my mom was amazing, she tried SOOOO hard to get into my mind that I was not obese, she says now she did that so I wouldn't think of myself as a 'fat person' but just as me). It's been hard, but believe it or not I have had a lot of time to reframe and start thinking of myself as a strong, healthy individual.
I was told to treat my weight loss like an amazing accomplishment that I managed to acheive through my own motivation and through my own hard work. Due to this when I do have a bit of a relapse (my weight generally hovers between 145-155), I can look at that accomplishment and know taht I can get back to where I want to be and then I do work on it right away, I don't wait it's a lot easier to lose 10lbs than 20 etc.
When I first got to goal I was so shy about telling people about my weighht loss (I moved and everyone has known me as being thin, not overweight). I was dating a guy and thought I was a phony for not telling him I used to be overweight (most guys live in the now and don't care about past weight troubles). I still get very angry though when people are discriminated against due to weight and fat jokes make me feel uncomfortable.
I think for us who have had significant weight losses (mine ranges from 101-110 or so) most of us will have to work at it for life. I am jealous of people who can eat 1 quarter of a chocolate bar and put the rest away. I can't do that, so I have to adjust my environment and not have trigger foods lying around. I know I am bad at buffets so I try to avoid them where possible (except for ones that are vegetarian and you pay by the gram kind of deal).
I am also a big WW eater... I was losing weight with regular exercise at 30-31 points a day. I have a big breakfast in the morning etc. I was talking to a dietician and she said I should never eat carbs alone and to have a protien or a fat with it. I basically eat 5-6 times a day, which helps too. I just don't see how people can eat 18points a day, I would starve, even with eating a ton of veggies or what not.
To play the Devil's advocate (hey I do eventually want to go to Law School

) on the eating anything you want on weight watchers philosophy as long as it's within points. I have basically cut out refined carbs from my diet etc and eat lean protiens, whole grains, fruits, veggies, soy stuff, healthier fats (ie. peanut butter, olive oils), but for some reason I just like the fact that if I really wanted a 5 point Skor bar I could have one, although when I am eating healthy I don't, I still somehow like to think if I want one, I could have one and fit it in to my daily allotment of points.
I never really banked points either. Usually either every week or every other week I'd have a good 'ole bar grill type meal with dessert, thinking about that kept me on track. That's one thing that worked well for me and I am thinking about going back to that.
Another point, know what worked for you when losing weight. If you worked well on a tight regime of eating at specific times, continue, if you liked having a cheat meal a week, continue (due to the binge eating habit I used to have <which sneaks up once in a while> I cannot have cheat days). Exercising daily, continue, Changing our lifestyle is what got is there. I can't live without breakfast now, even if I am running REALLY late I eat breakfast. Eat the calories/points to maintain, but yeah, basically keep to the changes you have implemented while losing weight as long as they are healthy and are maintainable.
I am going to be truthful, it has been a lot more work to maintain than to lose. Going to the scale and seeing the lbs go down helped the motivation momentum kind of deal. You said you ran a marathon, that's amazing. Training for something like that is good motivation to keep within the lifestyle. I weight train (I have taken some time off <bad me I know:P> and seeing the increase in weights I use <and the muscle> is motivation too.
My last motivation is just knowing how far I have come. Not only have I lost weight, but I have also become a confident/strong young woman who can accomplish whatever I want to (I used to use my weight as an excuse for many things). <man that sounded cheesy

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Meg: Good Luck with the surgery, I keep debating, but finacially right now it's not an option and I want kids, so I don't know <plus I have never had surgury asides from dental and I am a wuss>.
MrsJim+Meg: I can be a sneak eater too... It can be bad, but hey what I have to remind myself if that when I sneak eat I am only cheating myself.
Take care!
Ali (let's see if this after/before thing works first pic 2002 second 1996)