Firefly, you might find the posts listed here helpful:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/show...791#post986791 Or maybe not.
If anyone wants to post suggestions there, that would be great!
In regards to bloating, I'd think that it's a combo of you not feeling comfy with the type of starches you're eating and the msg and other ingredients in chinese food. I stay far away from Chinese when eating out because they add so many ingredients to everything and almost all sauces involved sugar, so it's hard to stay OP. Steamed veggies would be fine, but anything with a sauce would make me worry.
You definitely need more veggies...at LEAST 4.5 cups a day, hon. Try having a Phase 1 breakfast and add your starch in later in the day. Right now, with the smoothie, bread, and jam, you're eating something like 1 starch and 1.5 fruit in the morning. That's a lot to take! Try adding ONLY a fruit or one starch per day and try eating it at lunch or after. You might also benefit from having something that's not wheat based, like quinoa, brown rice, sweet potatoes, etc.
Do not skip meals or snacks...pack them the day before if you have to, but make sure you get them!!!
There are tons of great P2 dinners out there...try some of the crock pot recipes to help you out. You might try making burgers with WW buns or a pizza on a WW pita or WW pizza crust. If you make some coleslaw, 3 bean salad, or other veggie side, the night before, you can have dinner on the table in 15 minutes.
Is there anyone that can help you cook? If not, I'd do a huge cooking day on the weekend and freeze/refrigerate everything so you have lunches and dinners for the week.
Keep drinking that water, Firefly and I bet those 3 pounds will fly right off!