Evening, girls...or morning is more like it. I guess I'm the earliest one in today.
Today has been interesting to say the least. We woke up early this morning to go finish out Christmas shopping. We split up because DH had some shopping to finish for me. I bought my mom a really beautiful 4 strand freshwater pearl necklace and my dad is getting a Rabbit corkscrew. Picked up a few things for DS' stocking as well.
This evening was DH's graduation. It went well, albeit a bit longer than expected. DS was so tired but was really on good behavior. Ended up going out to eat afterwards with FIL and SIL/family. FIL was really acting strangely - very aloof....well, he's always aloof but a lot more than usual. I thought that he was upset with us about something. Turns out that he is planning to leave tomorrow morning for Gulf Shores. He hadn't told anybody....he's just up and leaving. When asked when he would be home, he said the 28th or the 29th...he's skipping Christmas! Apparently he thought that since no final plans had been made that we were just all doing something with our families and didn't want to do anything with him (something that definitely could have been remedied by making a darn phone call and confirming). He will also likely miss the birth of our son on the 29th. He said that he wanted to have a Christmas celebration with the family while SIL (from Idaho) is in town (29th - 3rd)...only there is one problem. I'm going to be in the hospital for most of that, and unable to move much for the rest. He said that he wants to take the family out for dinner on the 29th to celebrate his birthday....problem again is that I'm going to be in the hospital. He suggested to DH that just DH and DS come to dinner - DH refused and said that he would not just leave me in the hospital suffering on the first day of our son's life to go out and celebrate. He suggested bringing food in and celebrating in the hospital instead.
During dinner - which ended up being really late - DS was very tired and clumsy. He knocked a plate off the table (nothing on it) with his elbow. FIL gave him a very disapproving look and it made DS cry. I felt horrible and was so flabbergasted at the situation that I didn't know what to do or say but just comfort DS. I kept telling DS that it was just an accident and accidents happen, but he just kept crying and pointing to the plate saying that he broke it and GP was mad at him.

DH confronted him about it later and FIL said that he was just tired and crabby....not a great excuse for making a child cry, jerkface.
I really feel like the birth of our son is taking a backseat to all of this drama. It makes me really miss my parents and thankful that they are both so involved in their grandson's life despite the fact that they are 1300 miles away and only see him 3-4 times a year. I'm glad they are coming down in a few weeks - hopefully it will make the pain of going through this drama a bit easier to deal with for a few days.
*sigh* I miss the time when my in-laws were just a messed up family instead of two messed up families. It is easy to see how they were good for each other now that they are apart.
oh, and it is also our 5 year wedding anniversary.