My hubby asked how much more weight I had to lose. He said I should be getting close to goal now shouldn't I. Then he flat out asked how much I weighed!
We talked for a minute and I asked if he really wanted to know, yes he did. I told how high my weight had gotten, how much I have lost and how much more I had to go. He said he thought I was almost to goal and that he needed to give me more encouragement and support since I still had a ways to go (typing that out makes it sound like he was mean, but he wasn't at all). I told him he should have been giving me support and encouragement whether I had 2 pounds to lose or 200, but that I would be thrilled if he could be more supportive.
Then he looked at me in my workout clothes
I was like don't look I know they are really snug (I wear capris and a very snug tank top), he told me that they were snug but that is really showed where I had lost weight and that they looked fine. He said he was proud of me for working so hard.
I don't know what to think. My hubby really doesn't say much about my weight. His policy is fat? What fat? I don't see no fat on you. Oh look at that bright light over there, why don't we talk about that instead. LOL.
I am not sure what happened to make him notice or why he suddenly decided to open a conversation about my weight. I am just surprised he did. I am happy he is going to be more supportive but I know if he doesn't I can and will be able to do this on my own.
Hubby offering support?
