First day at the gym, yay me! Did 3 sets of 10 reps each on machines (I know, I know, but I haven't ever used free weights and I want to see what I can do without hurting myself) and today I feel like I haven't really done anything. Did some chest presses, some rows, some lat pulldowns, some lower back raises, etc. I was not shaking and unable to control the movement, which is good, but I'm not really sure if I was working to my potential or not. And today I'm not the slightest bit sore.
What should I be expecting?

At the very least, you should do reps to the point of fatigue, not just to reach a certain number. If my muscles aren't giving out with my last rep on the third set I make a note to myself to increase the weight the next time which usually means I back down on the reps and work up again. When I lift heavy I lift 6-12 reps and once I hit 12, I increase the weight and return to 6, but do more if I can.
Could I walk around as a beginner with the ability to "bench 250" or some other such manly comment. . . Is 70 pounds too little, since it's too easy? LOL I'm so clueless, and I promise to stop asking dumb questions sometime this millineum.
Most of the women are doing the 5, 10 and 12 pound dumbbells. I did bicep curls today with 25 pounds in each hand. Bench press is hard to say. I think the bar weighs 45 pounds and I add forty pounds to that, so I guess I'm lifting 85 pounds. Same with deadlifts. 