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Originally Posted by LindsaysMommy
its discrimination to even ask people to sit in a certain chair cause of their weight. It's like putting them in the spot light just because they are different from the person next to them. BTW - Natahsa I am glad you didn't have to worry about it, yeah for you!!!!
I disagree on this one. Discrimination shouldn't be confused with accomodating a special need. And it shouldn't mean pretending that the need doesn't exist, either. If a chair will not support my weight, asking me not to sit in it isn't a punishment, it's a courtesy. Encouraging me to risk my safety and the safety of others in order to pretend I'm not different, makes no sense.
Ideally all chairs in the workplace would be sturdy enough to be safe for people of any size, but they're not. If a chair isn't safe for me to sit in, I want to know about it - before my fat *** ends up on the floor. I can't tell you how many times I pretended that "I preferred to stand" because none of the chairs in a meeting room were going to work for me. I finally had enough of that crap, and would be honest and ask for an appropriate chair. It was embarassing the first couple times, until I realized that no one cared except me. No one minded finding a chair that would work for me - and it's not like it was a surprise to anyone that I was fat (that's pretty obvious).
As embarassing as it could be to essentially announce my weight by sitting in a fluffy chair, it's a lot less embarassing than toppling onto the floor amongst the wreckage of a flimsy chair.
And sadly, the chairs that are built strong enough to be safe for people over 300 lbs to sit in, are outrageously expensive (the price has been coming down as Americans get fatter, but theres no truly cheap option, yet). Many small businesses couldn't afford to purchase enough "fluffy" chairs for everyone.
If my options are to embarass myself by admitting to being over 300 lbs (which any moron should be able to tell just by looking at me) or the embarassment of ending up on the floor, possibly injuring myself and/or others with flying chair wreckage - I'll gladly take the former.