hey, lhbarbee in the midwest! Tell us about you! I've just been on this site a few days, and already I have "chatted" with folks in their teens, 30s, and more, from NY and Ireland and Florida. It's a very cool and supportive site. Please look around and jump in where you feel "at home." (I am over 50, but I like the vibe on the alternachick page -- go figure.)
cheers,
arg!