Although you said you mainly wanted to vent, I have a couple of gentle suggestions for you.

I noticed you said you aren't using your Flex points, and think that may be one of your problems. WW gives us the points for a valid reason - we're supposed to eat them, and they are built into our plan. If you include them I think you'll be surprised at the results. Personally, I split mine up daily - an extra 5 points a day. Eating the Flex points not only helps me stay OP, but when I get to maintenance, I'll have more daily points for the rest of my life.
Also, although you're staying with your points, are you eating healthy foods? Lots of veggies, some fruits, whole grains, dairy, etc? It's been my experience that I'll lose better when I don't allow too many junk food points.
What about exercise? Ya gotta move it to lose it!
One last thing, I know you want instant gratification, but as you said, this is a process, (a lifelong one at that) not a race. The added perk is that you will have a much better chance of keeping the weight off if you lose it slower.
Good luck to you, and let us know how it goes, ok? We care.
