You're not stupid!

It sounded like you were talking about 'intensity' when you mentioned briskness, so I just wanted to be sure what question you were asking.
OK, the intensity of an exercise refers to how hard your heart is working. The higher the heart rate, the more calories you're burning.

You've probably seen or heard of 'low-intensity', 'moderate-intensity', and 'high-intensity' exercise in Fitday and other places, right? That's determined by your heart rate while exercising.
To figure out your approximate heart rates zones, subtract your age from 220. That's your theoretical maximum heart rate. Exercising at 65 - 75% of your max heart rate is low-intensity, 75 - 85% is moderate-intensity, and over 85% is high-intensity. If you don't mind posting your age, I can help you figure it out.
While you're exercising, check your pulse several times and see what range you're in. A heart rate monitor is easiest, but you can also take your pulse on your wrist or neck. If you take it for ten seconds, just multiply by six to find out beats per minute. Then you can see how intense your exercise is.
As for the impact issue, it sounds like the video is too high impact for your joints. You don't need me to tell you that pain in your knees is not a good thing! Walking and running are impact activities and can be tough on joints. Nelie's right that you can get a heck of an intense workout with low or no impact activities so perhaps you should investigate some alternatives. For cardio, do you have access to a bike, elliptical, or pool? Those are all terrific no-impact cardio that will get your heart rate up there without any damage to your knees (I don't have cartilage in my knees and still use the elliptical every day - high intensity and no impact

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Are you doing any weight training? It's an important part of your exercise program and it's the Fountain of Youth for older women.
As for Fitday, I can't help. I use Fitday to track calories but have found the calories burned and calories needed calculators to be wildly inaccurate so I don't bother with them. Sorry!