Ooooooh boy (rubbing my hands together!) I just love turning people on to weights! I have two recommendations.
Our
Ladies Who Lift Forum, and the book Body For Life For Women. I like the women's version better than the 'unisex' one. It is super healthy, super realistic, and a great place for the new lifter to start. I've done very little weight lifting over the past few months, and when I start back, I'll probably do a weight routine similar to that to get started back up.
You may also find some good information in the
Featherweights forum. It was created just for the lighter chicks, like you!
I think that you'll be amazed at how much lifting weights can do for you. It is very beneficial for strong bones, muscle takes up much less room than fat so you'll actually trim down a bit, contrary to the myth of bulking up, and muscle burns more calories than fat, so you'll automatically burn more calories a day by merely existing.
