Okay, girls, lets bond here for a minute. We all have certain fears when it comes to losing weight or trying to lose weight, and they may hold us back. I think that it is time to get them off of our chests, talk about it, and maybe we can start to understand each other better in the process.
I fear that I may fail, and if I do fail, then those around me who want me to fail will be so glad. They will laugh at me behind my back, and say that they knew I couldn't keep up with it. I just don't want that to happen. I also fear that my new weight will ruin my marraige. Maybe that is silly. Surely it is, but you hear about people who lose a ton of weight, it totally changes their lives, and they end up divorced. I don't want my whole life to change. Sort of.