Hi IDGRL (and everyone else!),
I hate to say it, but I had to give up sweets (sugar-free as well as sugar-full) altogether. I found that I was eating cookies - and anything else sweet I could get my hands on - instead of food.
One of my friends decided to give up sweets for lent this year, and on a whim I decided to do it with her. I thought I'd confirm that it didn't make any difference in my weight. Ha! The joke was on me. By the end of 40 days, I'd lost about 15 pounds, exercising regularly but not making any other changes in my diet. I decided to keep going. Yesterday was 10 months for me. I've lost 44 pounds and my life has changed completely. I still have a way to go, but wouldn't go back for anything.
I plan to go a full year without sweets. Next year, I plan to have a treat every 3 months. The following year, I'm thinking it will be once a month. The goal is not to live a miserable cookie-less life
, it's just to get control of my health, and to learn how to eat cookies like a normal person.
I don't mean to say that this is The Answer. The trick is just finding what works for you, and holding onto it for dear life.
Wow - this has gotten long. Sorry!
Good luck!
cheers,
paula