Ok have a question and I need some input.
I have this friend which I've known since I was 18 y/o (I'm 30 now), we used to be close before she and I got married. When she got married (8 years ago) she felt bad b/c I went out to find some single friends b/c obviously I didn't want to be hanging around her and her husband. I mean she called me crying saying that she felt jealous that I had other friends. They went on to have kids.
Well, 4 1/2 years ago I and my husband got married so I started calling her once a month or so. Our friendship has never been the same, this girl isn't the type to call, you have to call her. But then she will make a comment about how we need to keep in touch. It seems like my husband and I speak more to her husband then I with her.
Whats even more funny is that when ever we are around other people or friends she will bring up old times and how we are so close. She tells people that I am her best friend. How can this be if she never calls (Well she does call when she needs something).
I told her that there would be good chances that my husband would be relocated out of state. She responded with "Oh, how sad, I'm going to miss you. What am I going to do without you, you are my best friend?" WHAT!
Like today I called to see how she was (mind you I haven't talked to the girl in 2 months) and she told me she had to get off b/c her kids wanted to go to the park, her kids are 4 and 2 1/2 years old. Our conversation was only about 2 minutes long.
What do you think? What should I do?