Directed at the ladies here that make up the bulk of the membership here.

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Most likely you are being way to critical of yourself

Your SO probably is fine with a lovehandle,and has one too !

I think people who are trying to lose weight should focus on losing fat. As losing weight does not mean that people's common health problems are getting better. Losing fat however can be seen as a sign that common health problems like diabetes are going with the fat. I'd recommend a keto diet to get rid of fat instead of weight.