I hear you
MiZTaCCen I got married in December and moved to California from New York, leaving my old life and old friends behind.. trying to start a whole new life and the only people I did interact with initially were my husband's friends. It is tough to adjust to a new set of people who are already well established in a clique. You can't break into the circle, you kind of have to ease your way in. I think what I noticed is, everyone will REACT to you and how you interact with them. If you are quiet, they will be quiet, if you can be hyper friendly, they will react in the same way.
I remember this one time, my husband took me to this club where his friends were having a birthday celebration. At first, I was just looking around, shuffling my feet all uncomfortable.. they were taking group pictures and selfies and I was just standing there looking at the girls like "umm do I pose with them? Nah it's their party.. they don't know me, maybe I can stand at the extreme corner... " hehe
Let's face it, a club is NOT a good place to meet people! You cant even hear yourself think let alone TALK to people, you're more like shouting in their ears! hehe
I am not sure what they thought of me that night, I hardly spoke to anyone and I was worried they won't like me very much and think of me as the standoffish plus one or new snobbish wife, but I somehow got around to meeting them again and they started making plans about a road trip and my husband was all in saying we'd love to go too and one of the girls came to me and was like "Oh you'd come out with us? That's great, I didn't think you would come, YAY!" TBH, I don't think I like this girl very much, she's just too loud and loves attention, hardly my kind of a person but I dont have to be best friends with her, just cordial you know?
I still dont know these people as well as my husband does and tbh it will take some time to open up to them completely but I have to make the effort and I also have to make the effort to make my own group of friends too since I am new to this town, you know?
Like going to the gym for instance, back in New York my bestie was my gym buddy but here I go alone sometimes, so my husband suggested I go to the gym with one of his friend's wives, a mother of triplets, who is just too fit looking if I may add. He keeps suggesting I go to group exercise classes at the gym so I can make new friends etc etc and I am all like "umm yeah okay maybe nah okay let's see".. Not trying to be standoffish, just trying to get comfortable with the idea of going to the gym with his friend's wife who doesn't look like a mom of triplets cause she is so fit and flab-free. I was insecure at first but later dh told me that I dont need to feel insecure - she got lipo, a boob job and tummy tucks done!! It may sound weird but I was just so happy to hear that she's not perfect after all! :P
Anyways just cheer up
it will work out and you will finally find a good group of people who are just like you and like doing things that you do!! you'll make wonderful memories with nice people in this new place, am sure of it, just hang in there and try to meet as many people as you can instead of depending on this one friend alone
P.S: sorry for the long post, I kind of went off on a rant too, I was like omg I am on the same boat as her.
Good luck!!