Hhi US Lady,
I'm not in Swansea, actually, I'm in NJ, as I see you currently are as well. I am British though and living over here. I'm sure you'll find loads of info from this site and we are a goold old bunch of girlies who help each other through thick and thin, so feel welcome to jump in anywhere around.
By the way, just being nosy, when are you getting married, we do like a wedding, don't we girls