So basically I've been talking to a guy online since November and he really wants to take me out on a date. Problem is that I am afraid that I might not look like he expected.. We added each other on facebook and he has seen pictures of me, so it's not like he doens't know what I look like, but I feel like I look slimmer in pictures than I do/feel in real life (might be a psychological thing though, idk..), but it's making me feel very hesitant about meeting up with him
I really do like him and I would love to go on a date with him, but I really don't want to scare him off or anything. I have told him that I am working on losing weight (not told him any exact numbers (yet), though) and he sounded very supportive, but still..
He's in London for his work and will return in a month. I did agree with him to meet up when he returns, so I'm trying to lose as much weight as I can by that time (but I know I won't be able to lose a lot in just a month), but I'm afraid that I'll get scared again and think of an excuse by the time he's back in town.
I'm not sure what to do, shall I tell him that I'd love to go on a date with him after losing a bit more weight, because I'd feel more comfortable with myself by that time (but I don't want to let him wait, because it feels unfair towards him, and I'm afraid of the thought that we might grow apart), or shall I just go on a date with him and see how it goes?
Any advice is highly appreciated thanks!!
Mary