Once again I am bowled over by the insight, humor, and realness of this group.
I am a bit like Sojo. I am naked girl, born with little modesty. Though I do hate the bathing suit, if I could go to the beach naked it would be better for me, because I might have an ugly belly but I got a nice rack
Depression and meds have affected my sex life. But one thing I realize about marriage is that if your commited to being together forever, you will have sex again. (Those people who go 4 years without are not commited to fixing the marriage or the problem).
The worst things about being fat is positions. Once I get below 200 lbs I can do about 1/2 my swinging from the ceiling, being on top, spinning around stuff that is fun. But we cant do standing or chairs until I am below 180. I depend on my body to be strong enough to have fun. At 265 my husband would gripe about my just laying there. I didn't like it but my fat body was in the way, including my energy level for carnal acts.
So there are my 2 cents. I know you were all dying to know
Miss Chris