Count me in
My boyfriend is the same. He's forever telling me how gorgeous & beautiful I am (I know... DAMNIT), and if I bring up my weight, he'd just repeat this and tell me I look fine but if I want to change anything he'll give me moral support and love me just as much. Even so far as to say "I don't care if you're a rake or the size of a house, I love you because you're YOU. All that matters is that you're happy with yourself".
I'm at the point now where I'm ready to change things, and he's forever congratulating me and telling me I look smaller, and happier. I honestly believe that if he was nagging me to lose weight (aside from the fact I would have broken up with him along the lines of "if you can't take me the way you find me: then find someone else to go out with") I'd probably develop a complex about it and refuse to do anything purely out of spite, regardless of the fact it'd hurt me too.
Because he's put zero pressure on me, I know for sure I'm doing it to please myself, so I have so much more confidence that I can keep up whatever changes I decide to implement.
Oh, and I had fun explaining the "Intuitive Eating" thing to him... He was under the impression he couldn't eat around me. Know he's happy with the fact that if I say "no thanks, I'm not hungry" it's the end of the conversation
He's insecure about how he looks too because he's very lean and finds it hard to bulk up, and never in a million years would I say to him "well, why don't you just go to the gym?". He knows my struggles like I know his and we respect each other. If he wants to go to the gym, he'll go. If I want to go to the gym, I'll go.
Maybe it's just a rebellious streak, but I would make a point of not doing it if he told/asked me to. It's not like he's asking me to wash the dishes or something, it's a lot more personal.