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Originally Posted by Vex
I may be old fashioned, but to me that is tacky tacky tacky.
Yea that is totally against the etiquette rules for sure. Registering somewhere is fine but you have to find out where by asking the couple personally or asking someone that is close to them. It's not right to put it in the invitation.
Usually, when the bride is having a shower the invitations are sent out by someone else anyway, and then it is appropriate to include a registry card in the invitation.
So in this case of the engagement party we RSVP'ed that we couldn't go by replying to the email address that was provided on the invite. We said sorry we couldn't be there and I did ask where the couple was registered but got no reply back. Don't know where to go from there. I feel awkward sending a card without anything in it.