"Ugh, I just weighed in at 170. I feel so fat and disgusting. I can't believe I did this to myself."
...or
"I will NEVER allow myself to ever put on a size 16. I will go naked and starve before I ever buy that size."
... maybe
"Gah! I only lost a lbs this week. Completely unacceptable!!"
Ever hear anything like that? Ever smile politely while someone complains about their "unacceptable weight" which happens to be very close to your goal? Or that your next goal size, is one they'd never allow themselves to wear? Et al. I'm trying hard not to let someone else's hang up on shame/guilt talk regarding weight or what they want THEIR ideal weight/size to be, effect my perception of what is right for me. But wow, its really, really hard.
Any good advice out there on how to combat that sort of thing?
Edit: I re-read what I wrote and recognized that perhaps it came off as some sort of catty comment towards people here. That was completely not my intent whatsoever. In reality, I've never personally had anything other than support here. In addition have never taken anyone else's comments about their weight loss goals and so forth as minimizing my own.