Thank you to those of you who took the time and effort to post your responses, thoughts, and ideas to me directly ~ and so quickly! I really and truly appreciate everyone's input! It sounds like I definitely need to give planning meals a try. Again, I need to realize that it won't be perfect and that it doesn't have to be all or nothing. Since many of you highly recommend it, I will attempt planning each day's meals the night before or decide each morning (with breakfast) what I will eat for that day. That feels doable. I just HAVE to be realistic about what I know in my gut I will or will not do, and planning a whole week ahead is just not me, at least not right now.
BillBlueEyes: Thank you for going through and addressing each of my questions. Your insights are very helpful. I especially like how you referred to the Beck strategy that it's far easier to stay on a plan than it is "to be good." It helped me to realize that "being good" has been my basic goal and hope each day, and that's not worked very well for me! "Being good" is not a diet plan and I do need to have a plan. As I mentioned, I will give planning a try once I decide on my diet plan (and back-up plan). Committing to one week of planning sounds doable and reasonable. Sorry for your hassles at the tech support desk. That is so frustrating! Good for you for tackling and fixing the problem on your own. Give yourself CREDIT for that, rather than beating yourself up by thinking you should have done that in the first place! Hope you are back on track and having a better day today!
nationalparker: First of all, don't let your slip of eating that cookie ruin the credit you give yourself for NOT eating the chips at Subway! At least you did not eat both and you are wise/brave for "fessing up" about your mistake. Secondly, thank you for your input on my questions as well. That is so awesome that you lost 60 pounds on Weight Watchers, even when dining out frequently! I have not ruled that diet plan out. Good to know that you were successful with it on the run. I know the meetings would be helpful for me, but the points counting sounds tedious. I have done Nutrisystem and Jenny Craig in the past and managed to lose 15 and 35 pounds, respectively (but gained it all back). I still feel a bit rebellious about "answering" to a "diet counselor" each week, which happened during my time with Jenny Craig. I KNOW I can't eat "substitute food" again; can't stomach it anymore and I gained everything back once back to eating regular food.
Beverlyjoy: Thank you for sharing the
Think Thin Thursday Tip. I have been reminding myself that it is the little positive/healthy choices I make throughout each day that will add up to better health and weight loss. This was further reinforcement of that concept for me. I will have to check out the Beck FB page.
gardenerjoy: I like your idea about trying out different diet plans. I, too, get bored easily with one...... unless of course it's working well!..... and need variety after awhile. I also will heed your advice on weighing and measuring once in awhile to keep my portions in check. "Once in awhile" sounds doable and I can see the value in that. The green Beck book sounds like it might be good for me to use, at least as my back-up plan. Can't wait to receive it! I really wish I could take each of the things that are most valuable TO ME about each plan and combine them into my own personal diet plan. I have learned something from each diet I have tried and from all of the self-help books I've read on weight loss. I plan on taking each valuable insight with me on whichever diet plan I choose. Thanks for your input on the South Beach diet as a possibility for me. I know someone who lost significant weight on it and looked great last time I saw her, after which I purchased a few of the books, but got overwhelmed with it and abandoned it before ever beginning.
As for planning, I have decided to definitely give it a chance. I am working on developing more self-discipline in several areas of my life, and planning can only help me with that.
FutureFitChick: Sorry about your headache and cough. I hope you aren't getting sick! I have frequent headaches and occasional migraines, so I feel your pain. Your input on weighing, measuring, and planning is helpful. I will definitely try planning and will use weighing and measuring on an as-needed basis (at least to start) ~ like when the scale won't budge, as you mentioned. I can't get enough mental preparation, because (at least for me) it is a constant battle. Hence my need and love of self-help books and support groups!
Lexxiss: Thank you for the reminder that I am not supposed to
start a diet plan for two weeks. I am still just investigating diet plans, but I cannot wait (though I will) to jump right in! Excited (again.....finally!) to lose weight and get healthier!!! I just hope and pray that this enthusiasm will last, especially after my first setback. I need to stick with whatever plan I decide on (as long as it is getting results)! I am all about working on my emotional issues. I have many, and it helps me so much to understand WHY I think and behave in certain ways. From your description of the diet plan in the green Beck book, I think I might like it, at least as a back-up, but possibly as my primary plan, too. I will just settle myself down until the book arrives and then decide on a plan. I can wait......right!? I really like what I've seen online about the "dietwatch: see yourself succeed" plan, too, especially because they have a whole separate part of their program dedicated to emotional eating (for a separate charge, of course!). If I had to choose right now, it would be the dietwatch plan as #1 and the Beck green book diet plan as #2.................. or vice versa. Uggggh, I hate making important decisions!!! Can you tell?!?
Maybe I am making too big of a deal out of choosing my plan. I can always switch if the first plan isn't working for me.
Okay, I think that's everyone (at least everyone who responded to me recently)! Hope all of you are having a great ~ on-plan ~ day!!!