Hello everyone! Gosh.. this is embarassing. I'm 5'1 and a size 16. So, you can imagine, it's been hard getting the self esteem to date. Actually, I used to be a size 18 and 20 pounds heaver, but I've been losing weight. I told myself that I wasn't going to date because I wanted to wait until I had something to offer a guy looks-wise as well as my personality.
I started talking to someone from a website a while back, and we've grown pretty close (well as close as you can without meeting) and he invited me to a "staycation" this weekend with him.. he's paying for a hotel, dinner.... everything. He really wants to meet. I've been very honest, I told him I have about another 50 pounds to lose, and he still wants to meet me. Which is fine and dandy, but this guy is gorgeous. I mean.. he's absolutely stunning. He told me that I already won him over with my personality, and that it's more important then a lot of things.. but seriously, I am really overweight still. It's disgusting.
I told myself I wouldn't put myself in this situation, but I met him too soon. He is paying for an entire weekend with me and I worry that he will see me and regret it!
Guys, would weight matter this much to you if you care about a girl's personality? Would the fact that she's getting healthier make a difference?
Girls, what would you do in my situation?
I've included a photo for added consideration :P
http://i1321.photobucket.com/albums/...o1982/muah.jpg