Lately, I have become more aware of the physical shape of other people. I was in a meeting a few days ago, and I happened to pay closer attention to the other participants in the room.
I was surprised to see that not everyone was thin and perfect. In fact, most of the participants were facing the fat-and-flab battle just like me. I saw muffin tops, missing collarbones, cherubic faces, bottoms that fit tightly into their chairs, and chunky thighs and tummies. For the first time ever, I realized that I was more toned than most other people. Not that I am Twiggy, far from it, but I am much more aware that I am not the only one facing the battle of the bulge.
In fact, I would say more than half of us are. I guess I have just been so inwardly focused on my own imperfections that I failed to notice that I am surrounded by others who have the same weight issues. Maybe even bigger ones.
I don't know why I'm posting this; I'm not picking on anyone or trying to be superior. I still have a lot of my own weight issues to work through. I guess that I didn't realize or notice until now that I have been very hard on myself, thinking I am the biggest one and the only one with a big gut, when I am only one of hundreds of people in the same boat. I actually felt like I was normal, like I fit in for a change.
Since you have been on a weight loss plan, have your perceptions of other people's sizes changed?