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Originally Posted by KrazieStarz
Are you talking about Katt Williams?? I saw a video of him doing stand up comedy and was talking about woman's stretchmarks and tiger stripes I thought it was hilarious!! Maybe us women do really worry about things like this when men don't even care at all..We always worry about how we look and whatnot and men dont even care or notice!
Yes that's him.
Similarly my hubby tells me my scarred right boob is his "favorite" because the scars (from removal of a tumor that turned out to be made of benign scar tissue) remind him how lucky he is not to have lost me to what might have been cancer (the tumor was found shortly before we married, and removed/biopsied shortly after).
I think we all, men and women can choose to see beauty in the battle scars of our own and others. To be sure, it's a different kind of beauty than the flawless, symmetrical beauty of youth - but it's beauty nonetheless.
Through my hubby's eyes I've learned to see the beauty in my oddly shaped, scarred right breast and in my stretch marks. I'm working on seeing the beauty in my flabby underarms, and haven't been quite as successful (about the closest I can get so far is imagining that if I were a flying squirrel the flappy underarms wouldn't be quite as ridiculous looking - unfortunately I'm not a flying squirrel).