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Originally Posted by BlackBarbieKiss125
I know from past experiences I have had friends leave me when I was say within 20 lbs of their weight or even a lb less than them. I think they got used to going out with me and 100% of the attn being on them and even when I received a little it was too much for them to handle.
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That is awful that your "friends" would treat you like that. You should not be their, for lack of a better word, stalking horse. If they can't handle you getting some deserved attention, I am not sure you should be friend.
Isn't it the pits being dismissed by guys because of your weight? I can't wait to be smaller and make sure they know they aren't getting a second bite at the apple. (Which is funny, because one of them is already sniffing around) When you hit your goal weight, knock those losers out!
As for my friends? My thin-minny friends are all super excited for my weight loss. Since they are all shy (and I am pretty friendly), they expect me to be able to wingwomen for me and pick up the spares (like in bowling...). lol.
I am more worried about the ones that AREN'T losing weight. They are very heavy and I am scared that they will become resentful of my success (that they aren't currently willing to work for). Even with what I have lost now they are...circling the wagon in a predatory manner preparing to cast me out it seems. All I can do it try and support them to lose weight themselves.