Hey everyone. I'm a twenty-year-old who has gone from 200 something pounds to 160 - 170 pounds in the last year, and I'm in the process of getting past a major plateau. But losing that weight has made me realize that I will never be any ideal body type that I could imagine. I'll never be petite and I'll never be curvy. I have very small breasts (and always have), a flat behind, and narrow hips. So, although I'm much healthier and happier than I have ever been, I am still struggling with self-esteem issues. I don't love my body type, and I have one target of my personal hatred: my neck. Instead of that crook beneath the chin, I have a slope. It's not that I have a weak chin, and I'm not sure what it is about my body that causes it, but I've been waiting for it to become less obvious with weight-loss. It has, but it annoys me that it is something I focus on.
So, what I really want to ask you if for advice to accept my body, now and at whatever weight. I don't get any male attention, and I do not want to get breast augmentation or surgery to get that (or to fit into clothes better.) I very much want to accept my body, flat, tiny, boyish, and chubby, whatever it ends up being. Do you have any words of wisdom?