I have lost a lot of weight and I'm lookin pretty great if I do think so myself. I posted some pics at my new weight on facebook. Nothing super risque, just a pic of my face (making a regular face, I think, smiling) and a pic of my body - the one in my avatar. I'm wearing clothes and everything.
Anyways, my aunt was talking to my mom and my mom sent me an email saying "I think your facebook photo is too sexy"
My mom doesn't even go on facebook, she doesn't even have a profile... I think my aunt saw my photos and was jealous, and said to my mom they were too sexy. My aunt is very overweight and I think she was envious that I lost weight.
It's very frustrating to see that from other women who I think "should" be supportive, especially from family members.
I don't think I was doing anything wrong, and I'm finally getting into a "normal" weight zone, a "healthy" weight... finally not obese, finally not overweight, just NORMAL. which means so much.
so it's really awful to be critisized for being too SEXY. i'm not even in a bikini or anything.
it's like, too fat, too fat, too fat my whole life and then one week of being a normal, just NORMAL not even thin and suddenly i'm too sexy?? what the heck? can't my body ever be ok without other people judging it?
I don't want these judgemental attitudes and lack of support to stop me from my weight loss journey though!! I don't care if people are jealous or don't support me or envious. I am going to stay strong and be healthy anyways.
I think it is hard for my aunt because we come from a family that has very judgemental attitudes about weight and she and i were always the "heavy ones" and now that I am losing weight maybe she feels like she stands out more or there is more pressure on her so she wants to critisize me and make me feel bad for losing weight. but i'm not going to listen! I'm going to feel good about myself for losing weight and being healthy and i'm going to love my body the way it is and not feel bad about it!!
I love myself!