I have this friend, my best friend actually, known her since high school. She was cool then but now that we are grown women (24 and she almost 25) i've found shes is extremly jealous of other women, including myself, to the point the things she says are insane and hurtful. She has never had a bf, the longest a guy has 'hung' out with her has been a couple weeks, i think this has played a part in her self esteem. Why else would she feel the need to put down other women all the time? For example shes always going on about how guys always want the skinny girls but the skinny girls are all fake because they wear corsets and shapewear and how she just wants to rip off their corsets and shapewear to show all the men that they are actually fat. I wear corsets and she says thats one of the only reasons i have a bf and she doesnt. she also goes off on push up bras and heels, and makeup. she has a few girls she constantly calls fake for their makeup , she recently said a friend of ours only has a bf cause she wears makeup on her eyes that makes her eyes change shape and size. i try to tell her makeup can only do so much, and that our friends are pretty and so is she but she wont here it. she has once went off about how me and my other friend 'steal' all the men because we are both of scandinavian descent and thats 'exotic' (white is exotic??). recently i aquired some extensions to put streaks of color in my hair and she is now talking about how she wants to pull all the 'plastic' hair off of girls heads to show their 'ugly' real short hair. i feel as though shes angry other girls put time into their appearence, i tell her she can do the same but if she doesnt want to dont be angry at the girls that like to do their hair and makeup and wear whatever clothes they want.
Sorry for the rant, but my point is I want to know if anyone else has a friend like this in their lives?