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and kaplods, you did not offend me at all. i did say that im not sure how to be honest and sensitive. thats why i asked for help. i wasn't trying to pretend that i know how to help her, i asked help about how to help her. i have been staying out of it and by the fact that she continues seeking my help shows me that i should start learning how to be sensitive and honest, which is why i posted. Your brutal honesty did not offend me. i dont get offended when people point out my flaws. Im very honest with myself and am being honest when i say that i haven't done anything to help her yet because, like you pointed out, i dont know how to do it with honesty and sensitivity. thank you for outlining the purpose of my point, though you still didn't actually give me any advice on how to be sensitive and honest at the same time, instead you just pointed out what i already know. i appreciate your response though. telling me that i need to learn how to be sensitive and honest may not have been something new, but at least it was honest of you.
I think learning how to be sensitive and honest is kind of a situational thing, that might be why no one can give you the direct advice that you're seeking. Originally Posted by 100percentME
thank you. that was very helpful and kaplods, you did not offend me at all. i did say that im not sure how to be honest and sensitive. thats why i asked for help. i wasn't trying to pretend that i know how to help her, i asked help about how to help her. i have been staying out of it and by the fact that she continues seeking my help shows me that i should start learning how to be sensitive and honest, which is why i posted. Your brutal honesty did not offend me. i dont get offended when people point out my flaws. Im very honest with myself and am being honest when i say that i haven't done anything to help her yet because, like you pointed out, i dont know how to do it with honesty and sensitivity. thank you for outlining the purpose of my point, though you still didn't actually give me any advice on how to be sensitive and honest at the same time, instead you just pointed out what i already know. i appreciate your response though. telling me that i need to learn how to be sensitive and honest may not have been something new, but at least it was honest of you.