We have almost the same exact stats -- height, weight, clothing size. My highest was 194 but was successful at avoiding the camera.
I went to my sisters house last month and saw a pic of me from Christmas. The worst part was when that pic was taken, I was happy with how I looked. Now I'm just disgusted. I took that pic home, framed it and have it on my dresser. It's a daily reminder of how far I have come and how I never want to go back there.
So use your own picture as your motivation. It will keep you from slipping back into denial and keep you on plan. Oh, and next time you are in Home Depot or wherever, find something that weighs 50+ pounds. You will be SHOCKED that you had carried that weight for so long and it will give you amazing perspective.
Congratulations to you for losing so much weight! It's a wonderful accomplishment. And I have no doubt you are looking fabulous!! These last 14 pounds you want to lose will have more of an impact on your outwardly appearance than the first 20 (or 30) did.