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Originally Posted by proudmommy09
wow.... really? rude much?
Not to mention completely untrue.
You do not have to be able to stick to any plan for 2 weeks straight, nor do you have to pass any other test of weight loss aptitude in order to succeed at weight loss. I spent most of my life failing at weight loss because I believed sanctimonious crap like this, and when I couldn't stick to a plan perfectly, I would believe (because people I respected told me so) that this meant I could not stick to any plan and therefore I was doomed to fail at weight loss and might as well give up.
There is no pass/fail test for successful weight loss. Not being able to stick to a specific plan can be an obstacle, but it's only that. I've lost every one of my 90 lbs breaking most of the taken-for-granted rules of weight loss, especially those about "sticking to" a plan. I don't think I've had a single perfectly on-plan week. Sure it slows weight loss having to constantly fight imperfection, but perfectionist beliefs are a much bigger deterent.
If you can't diet perfectly on-plan, then diet half-a**ed. If you cant give it 100%, give it what you do have whether it's 98% or 2%. If you always do the best you can (even if your best sucks) you will make progress as long as it's better than what you have been giving.
Controversial advice? You betcha, it's the opposite of what you've always been told (that you have to be perfectly on plan - or at least be able to string together long stretches of perfection, to lose weight), but that b.s. Being imperfect works, it works a lot better than the traditional way of dieting (be perfect until you can't, then berate yourself for the failing loser you are and and then eat everything in sight until you gain all the weight back before trying to be perfect once again).
Food plans/diets are weight loss tools, they're not magic. Neither failure nor success is so easily determined that it can be predicted in one sentence.